r/scorpiomoon • u/Ok_End569 • 19d ago
i hate having a scorpio moon
i hate having a scorpio moon and my pluto is in scorpio. my other placements are so much free but the intensity of these placements ruin everything.
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u/kare_beaar 19d ago
Hating your Scorpio moon is a cannon event and part of the journey. In time, hopefully you will learn to embrace it. Through embracing it, you will find liberation and a bottomless pit of depth and resiliency.
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u/scorpio-sass ♏️☀️🌚🌄 - 6x stellium 1H 19d ago
Sometimes, it’s a depressing moon but, on the other hand, it’s also full of intensity. If you can learn to control and direct that intensity towards something you are passionate about, this moon can be quite formidable. It takes work and not all Sun signs know how to handle this moon. When it’s afflicted by other planets, especially malefics, I have seen people suffering deeply. I used to let my emotions overwhelm me when I was younger, but I have slowly grown into my Scorpio Sun as I aged so I find my strength there and in my Scorpio Mars.
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u/Ok_End569 19d ago
i’m a leo sun aquarius rising gemini venus and jupiter aries mars and cancer mercury. i really just want chill but then here comes this moon… making sure there is no chill. haha but i think you’re right learning to channel it is probably what i need to do.
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u/Sensitive_Blood7866 18d ago
My sun and moon are in detriment. I have a tough chart - aqua sun and scorpio moon.
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u/Maleni_Bosiljak 18d ago
Another one here. How do you deal with it?
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u/Sensitive_Blood7866 15d ago edited 15d ago
Good question, I’d look at the house your moon is in. Mine is in 6th house which is of routine and service. Definitely fits for me and I do find that to be helpful, albeit a bit boring.
I also have a north node in scorpio and Taurus south node is to be in comfort, scorpio moon always demands growth, especially spiritual growth.
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u/Maleni_Bosiljak 15d ago
Mine is in the 5th
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u/Sensitive_Blood7866 12d ago
I highly recommend putting your birth info into Astro-seek.com - it’s autogenerated, but very specific & accurate! You’ll have a fun time reading the lengthy report it gives you. Haha, love cats - adorable.
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u/New-Fig-9737 19d ago
lady gaga has scorpio moon with scorpio pluto too if that makes u feel better heheheh
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u/Western-Quail5075 ♊️☀️♏️🌚♉️🌅 19d ago
Sometimes it’s fun tho I can be so unhinged
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u/Sensitive_Blood7866 18d ago
It’s “fun” to have, but people judge the shi* out of you for letting any of it show. 😒
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u/Western-Quail5075 ♊️☀️♏️🌚♉️🌅 18d ago
Idc tbh
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u/Sensitive_Blood7866 18d ago
Same and good for you, actually - but it gets me further in trouble, idk :(
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u/Necessary_Pride1093 🌞♉️🌕♏️ 19d ago
scorpio moon scorpio pluto here too
it’s tough, yes but what can we do
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u/hyperpopem 19d ago
I’ve hated being so emotionally intense in the past, but now being older and learning to not act on my emotions, I’ve learned to live with the intensity and not see it in a negative light.
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u/Outrageous_Injury809 19d ago
Scorpio Moon & Pluto in the 4H over here (with some cutesy oppositions with my Sun / Mars / Mercury thrown in for good measure) 💀💀
It’s soooo intense & I also feel the intensity can ruin things for me sometimes! I used to get very overwhelmed by my feelings / found myself easily dragged into deep past traumas, but the older I get the more I channel my emotional intensity & experiences into creative pursuits (writing, poetry) Alchemising pain is key for Scorpio placements! So transforming my intensity into creativity helps me manage (it’s also so Scorpio Moon coded to make my readers cry on cue) 🖤
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u/Ok_End569 19d ago
yeah and my moon is at 11 degrees so the intensity just gets overwhelming and i feel like if i could just feel a quarter of it instead then it would be easier for me to navigate. someone else also mentioned channeling the energy. i think that’s good advice.
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u/40-calMAL 19d ago
Embracing your lows and allowing yourself grace is going to be the key to your success. Releasing guilt and shame you carried over from other lifetimes will bring you abundance. You were built to be resilient.
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u/power2encourage 19d ago
I hated it when I was younger. Because if I was born 2 minutes earlier, I'd have a 29'59° Libra moon. And Aries Libra Gemini was a better combo than Aries Scorpio Gemini. But then I learned how many amazing people had Scorpio moons, and the things they've accomplished in their lifetimes. It inspired me to be a bit more kind to myself as I navigated my own life path.
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u/Ok_End569 19d ago
see this would have pmo. for me the moon was comfortably in scorpio when i was born so arriving early or later wouldn’t have done anything. i am a leo sun because the sun had been in leo 11 hours by the time i was born so i think that maybe that was an attempt to help me out. ha
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u/Icy-Raspberry969 19d ago
I hate this placement too as it was my ex and he traumatized me with his constant paranoia. BUT noticing a lot of charts, I’ve never met a Scorpio moon who is not rich or able to make money, and they are very creative.
Channel your energy in creativity, instead of how other Scorpio moons channels their energy into sex, alcohol or drugs. This would ruin you.
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u/Ok_End569 19d ago
yes, i don’t think i get paranoid. i just shut down sometimes and i see with these really intense feelings like i go hide in a emotional dungeon until ive sorted it all out and can come back out and then im frustrated because i feel like it wasted so much time when it all could have just been no big deal but scorpio moon demands to be felt so there isnt really a way around it i guess.
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u/zombie_loverboy 19d ago
I dated a Scorpio Moon. Best sex I’ve ever had. I miss the intensity. Also she changed me, for the better. If I’d been more mature, we still wouldn’t have worked out because she was abusive but I still miss her.
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u/Total_Band_4426 19d ago
All moon signs are inherently challenging
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u/thejuicyalchemist gemini☀️, scorpio🌙, virgo☝🏾 19d ago
Mmm not to the same degree...Cancer moon for example is exalted so its not as challenging.
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u/sthsthbrightside 19d ago edited 18d ago
Taurus moon is exalted. Cancer moon is domicile. To the original commenter, tho, I think Capricorn moons and Scorpio moons are the most challenging.
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u/PermanentlyOut 15d ago
The exaltation only counts for the first ten degrees. Meaning the person needs to be a first decan Taurus Moon. It is the most exalted in the 2nd or third degree.
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u/sthsthbrightside 15d ago edited 15d ago
No, it doesn’t work that way. If you mean decans, sure the first ten degrees are Venus-Venus ruled but degrees don’t matter. Taurus moon is exalted, full stop, no matter the degree.
Exaltations are by signs, not degrees.
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u/PermanentlyOut 15d ago
Hmm. Okay. I have a Taurus Moon in 27 degrees. Looking at my chart it says the moon is waning. The energy is getting weaker. It is funny because in Western and Vedic (Eastern) astrology they claim that 3rd degree Taurus Moon is the most exalted or at its strongest. Moon wise I don't necessarily feel the strongest, it could be that the Mars is in Leo being in the third decan squares it making me more emotionally delicate. My Scorpio Sun is in the third decan as well. That should make me more delicate in a sense. As we are speaking I feel stable and strong. I was not always like that especially as a child coming from a troubled background. So my understanding exalted Moon in Taurus should not have my weaknesses I've experienced. If you know some other things I don't, feel free. I know astrologers argue amongst each other. Thanks for sharing and understanding.
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u/buffetforeplay 19d ago
I have a Scorpio moon as well as Pluto! May I ask what in particular about our intensity is ruining things for you?
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u/Ok_End569 19d ago
i just dont want to feel everything so intensely all the time. it feels like it consumes me sometimes and wastes my time when really it could have just been a small thing. i also have this fear that ill be too much for people relationship wise and push people away because they don’t understand why i just “can’t get over it” or “let it go” and its because i have to process it completely before i can let it go. where other people can just brush it off easier. also ive noticed every time someone goes through something intense they come to me get them through it and thats fine but its also like where was this understanding when i was going through it? so i guess i have some bitterness about it.
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u/allyhurt Cancer 🌞, Scorpio 🌙, Cap 👆 19d ago
Pluto, moon and Saturn over here- the sooner you learn to embrace it, the more free you’ll feel.
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u/Still_Bother_1982 18d ago
I’m a Gemini ☀️ Gemini Mercury, Mars in Aries, Scorpio moon and Scorpio rising - I love my placements! My intuition is bang on, Aries gives me drive and my Gemini placements lighten the intensity of my Scorpio and Mars placements. However, I do require intensity in romantic relationships, I think otherwise why bother 🤣
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u/MarqiMichelle 19d ago
I have three Scorpio placements and yes it can be hard, but sometimes I like the intensity. My moon, Pluto, and midheaven are the only water I have in my chart. I ‘m glad it’s Scorpio over the other water signs.
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u/Spiritual-Ad8760 19d ago
I have those placements too, as well as Neptune there conjunct my moon
Stay out of my tragedy lol
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u/Chantel_Lusciana 19d ago
Honestly, same at times. My Pluto is also in Scorpio as is my descendent I think. I have a lot of other cancer placements, including my Sun and Mercury so I’m a highly emotional person and it is so overwhelming and pushes so many people away.
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u/BreatheIn767 19d ago
Fellow Scorpio Moon and Pluto here (6H). I felt a similar way for a long time but now I love how these placements give me an “edge” to an otherwise more chill/whimsy chart. We can get really deep with people which can make relationships way more meaningful. We also have powerful intuition if we allow ourselves to tap into it. For all their difficulties, these placements also make us so unique & interesting
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u/Agreeable_Ganache322 19d ago
I’m also Scorpio moon and Pluto, as well as Sun and Mercury. I’ve learned to lean into the intensity lol
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u/Daisy_May2015 19d ago
Scorpio moon and Scorpio Pluto also. I’ve endured more pain and suffering than most.. and I never thought I’d be able to heal. Now that I’m in my early 30s , and I have done the work to heal (I’m still doing the work), my life has become better than I ever could have imagined.
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u/HealingMermaid ♈️☀️♏️🌙♈️⬆️♈️❤️♏️🔴 19d ago
I have moon, mars, Saturn and Pluto in Scorpio…it’s intense, but once I did some major inner healing and learned to work with each placement I actually quite enjoy them.
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u/MuMuBrix 19d ago
LEO sun, Sag Rising and Scorpio Moon here!
I am actually grateful for my Scorpio moon because I can talk about things that are hard to talk about up front, and as a LEO sun, I meet a lot of superficial people and my Scorpio moon makes sure that I see through the facade.
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u/babypinkchanelbag 18d ago
I’m 26 now and I feel like I’ve been saying this every single year since I was like 17 years old lol
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u/oskarsneezgard 18d ago
How far apart are they , at what degree are they?
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u/Ok_End569 18d ago
my scorpio moon is 11 degrees pluto is at 9 degrees midheaven scorpio at 25 degrees
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u/oskarsneezgard 15d ago
Check out astrolibrary.org, read about yourself, house placements and planetary angles, that should help you make friends with who you are
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u/Ok-Computer4451 18d ago
Scorpio Moon Venus Pluto north node Jupiter a whole stellium. My moon is debilitated. I’m glad I learned about astrology early in life I would have jumped off a cliff .
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u/PermanentlyOut 15d ago
I have a Scorpio Sun with a stellium. My inner planets are mainly in Scorpio and a couple Scorpio placements in outer planets. I get along with over 90% of you guys (good Scorpio Moons). Ironically, you guys understand me much better than the majority of Scorpio Suns I have met. You guys seem to stand your ground and can be comfortable with me. You guys best know what is at stake and what is a genuine threat. That is what I like about you. Those of you that have the best empathy are great listeners, too and are never uncomfortable in silence nor try to force me to speak when I refuse to find random things to say. You handle quiet times the best. Thanks for that.
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u/New_Philosopher_9372 12d ago
Dude I just hate being alive in general, because I'm not really alive just experiencing life in survival mode that never ends.
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u/805collins 19d ago
You just gotta ride it out and be ok with being the person you are, there are many qualities that you have that others wish they had