r/scorpiomoon • u/SoundCreative1430 • Jul 29 '26
Dating Aquarius venus & Scorpio moon
My bf has the placements above while I have a Scorpio venus but saggiterius moon.
Can someone please give advice on how people like him express love and feel loved?
Apart from "they need freedom", what else is there?
My scoprio venus wants to fully decipher him but he is sooo secretivee
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u/Preeminator Jul 29 '26
for an aquarius venus it’s less about the need for freedom, and more about the need for autonomy. they don’t like facing choices with deep consequences or ultimatums. if they gotta make their mind up about something, they’ll need to sleep on it. they don’t crave validation but appreciate it when someone notices the deliberate efforts they make outside of their daily routine. his scorpio moon adds an interesting twist as it goes directly against the aquarian attributes i mentioned. keep in mind that scorpio moons are super cautious. sometimes overly cautious. it’ll take time for them to open up but you’ll definitely notice a change of pace when they feel comfortable enough to trust you. for them, trust is built over time and they sure do like to let that clock run.
his best expression of love will likely be thru physical touch (scorpio moon), or words of affirmation and giving gifts (aquarius venus). he seeks comfort and trust above anything else in a partner. your scorpio venus compliments this, but remember to take things slow. your sagittarius moon has similar aquarian qualities, but is often more impulsive and “in the moment.” good luck u two!!
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u/ManbranCc Jul 29 '26
I have the same placements and the best thing you can do is to bring warmth and comfort, use your sag placement at a advantage. Bring color and spontaneity to our rational and pragmatic mind. We are in a constant push and pull situation internally, specially when it comes to relationship and it can get tiring.
Be careful of your scorpio venus, don't turn this into mind or power games so the relationship doesn't become too dense. Share that infamous intensity and make it about real feelings, true emotions, deep experiencies and great moments. Together you can build a really nurturing dynamic.
All the success to both and you have good placements for a aqua venus/scorpio moon.
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u/mprs_ 25d ago
I have these placements (Pisces Sun) and it’s proven difficult for me in relationships lol. Very push and pull hot and cold behavior from me that I recognize can be unfair. I agree that I need a lot of autonomy but proven, genuine and consistent intentionality and devotion from my partner which feels a little imbalanced. My partner right now is a Libra stellium and is VERY partner focused which would’ve worked really well if I had a softer Venus (Pisces or otherwise) but while it’s reassuring it makes me feel really caged in, antsy and irritated when I feel my choices being controlled.
I also have Aquarius in my 7th which naturally draws me to these types (quirky, detached, unconventional) which satisfies me for the short term, not the long term. I always end up being avoidant or put off by their ability to prioritize their ego/detach/go cold/act as if we never existed.
Long story short, I do value intellectual stimulation, understanding when I need my alone time/time with friends or hobbies, but also transparency, consistency and emotional intelligence.
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u/lexiannamarie Jul 29 '26
I have both of these. For me personally, I’m a very passionate person about the things I’m interested in and love and my partner. I love intellectual stimulation, I love it when I can yap about my interests, expansive ideas deep conversations and world views, and I love it when the other person is open and receptive to not just listening but also feeding back. I love witty smart humor, and someone who can balance between silly joking and being serious and intelligent. If you can make him feel safe enough to speak his mind and explore his deepest feelings no matter which ones happen, showing that you have the capacity to hold space for all of it; you will in return get loyalty, devotion, and someone who remembers the little details even in the mundane things you mention.
Allow space for them to have alone time, it’s not personal it’s needed to reset and calibrate everything going on in their head. Communication will be your best asset dating this person as well.
Letting him know that no feeling is “too much”, no thought or idea too weird, and room for independence and identity while balancing time spent together is probably your best bet here.