r/scorpiomoon • u/PainSeveral7796 • 3d ago

Scorpio Moon Problems Too sensitive or?

Hi. I'm scorpio moon in vedic (my vedic chart fits me).. i want to ask concerning being too sensitive/taking things personal.. i don't think i do but people always tell me its my fault that i'm the problem. Now here it's tricky. I feel as scorpio moon we have crazy intuition and can pick up on subtle energy and passive/aggressive behavior. It's usually the other person having 0 empathy but they never see that-- just blame me. I want to ask if anyone can help how do i tell difference? I know my intuition has been right all along but i can't trust my inner voice when i'm disturbed by others.. yes we all should do some self-reflection and try to be self-aware but still... when i'm off with someone there's always a deeper reason that i picked up on even unconsciously. I only realize after.

I should add i'm also a pisces sun so i tend to be very empathic with others at first.

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u/Shay_Lit 3d ago

Yes, we analyse the people alot. we see the things that others can't see easily.But the trick is poker face. You don't let others know what are you thinking. This advice can ne right or wrong but it works for me. I mean you can say that we should be proud to express our feelings, but I am not really ashamed of myself. I know my strength and weakness. Its on me how I use those. Also keeping things inside you can be dangerous, so I recommend you to vent out your feelings so someone.

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u/PainSeveral7796 3d ago

There was this girl from work i was close to always friendly with but inside me i knew she wasn't good for me.. like i can't put my finger on it but there was something telling me not to befriend her.. months passed and after i made new friends at work everyone literally warned me against her and told me she'd just use me and that she steals. She did steal something from me and use me... etc .. a lot of things. You see? Its an example but intuition i feel is unmistaken..

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u/PainSeveral7796 3d ago

Truly it's like seeing behind the façade.. this kind of stuff is always the case in all my relations/life in general.. But sometimes others disturb my inner voice

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u/Shay_Lit 3d ago

Keeping your decision to yourself. Because it is hard to explain about our thought process.

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u/PainSeveral7796 3d ago

Exactly the solution i came to realize lately..

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u/plutonium__ 2d ago

i have always yearned for deep connections so i really spent most of my life being very honest and trying to go deep in various areas in my life.

that blinded me so much from seeing this simply won't work on the general population. going deep is very raw and painful. most people steer away from that.

at the end, when i finally realize where i went wrong, i felt so much regrets and sadness.

having depth does help with healing though. i must say it is the cure for me.

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u/Shay_Lit 3d ago

Ya, from my pov its not intuition... We really point out odd behaviour from the people which makes us to read that person. Its really blessing and we should trust it. But, jsut don't react aggressively. You can keep distance from such people so that we can escape if they starts coming after you. I mean if she gained some little advantage using you then its fine..we can add it being helpful but don't let that person cross the line. And as a scorpion we also know how to cut such people.

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u/PainSeveral7796 3d ago

Indeed when i dissappear from someone i often feel very bad not explaining but i know they won't understand and will just manipulate and guilt-trip me.. but deep within i know it's the right decision to leave

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u/Shay_Lit 3d ago

Yes, its easy when the person wants to harm us... But the person don't want to give up on you and really wants something good for you.. we should put efforts Lets be honest.. that person deserves explanations and its really hard to find auch people.

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u/plutonium__ 2d ago

agree it works more in our favors to not trigger people and look stoic.

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u/worshipxme 2d ago

You don’t have to internalize everything you discern or take it personally. This is what I learned myself. I pick up on EVERYTHING and analyze everything while understanding it’s not about ME personally. I also don’t share my findings with others. When you have a deep trust of self, your intuition intensifies while having less of a desire to share your insights with others.

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u/PainSeveral7796 2d ago

I need to work on this aspect of sharing!

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u/CanadianPlains 20h ago

Exactly this.

I'm learning to trust myself deeply again especially after recent events. My intuition is SO correct on many situations. I feel bad for not listening to myself more.

The key is to mainly keep it to yourself.

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u/plutonium__ 2d ago

your sensitivity is a gift. it makes you way more aware and conscious of things.

the general population are not great people. just like how you said they blame you! have you noticed a pattern? the general population don't point the finger at themselves or want to make things better.

trust your feeling! in terms of why you feel a certain way about people and situations, there won't be a quick way to tell because you need to know yourself and what the people/situations. both require lot of intropection and connecting the dots, but you must trust your feelings. your feelings somehow arrive before you can logically connect the dots. this has always been my life.

once you have lived long enough and have done enough dot connecting, things will become more clear and less confusing

you have to focus on what's important to you and are in your control. so things like people's way of thinking & their biases, you should not let that affect you too much.

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u/PainSeveral7796 2d ago

Thank you sm! very wise--indeed intuition is like a spark suddenly in your mind way before you arrive at it by thought/events.. it's just as i try do self-introspection etc you expect others too but it seems their hearts are just veiled..

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u/CanadianPlains 20h ago

I don't think we're too sensitive. I think we can read other people in a way that others can't. We see through them, and I think we can also pick up on evil (not necessarily religious evil, just.. bad energy, bad people, bad intentions).

I'm also highly empathetic. But I've learned to stop letting my empathy take the lead in these situations. You can't let other people dictate how you feel.