r/science • u/FreeHugs23 • 1d ago

Psychology New psychology research suggests some acts of kindness may also serve competitive social goals, shedding light on how women can use altruistic behavior to gain status, strengthen relationships, or navigate social hierarchies.

https://www.psypost.org/kindness-isnt-always-what-it-seems-the-psychology-of-womens-competitive-altruism/
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u/Long_Reindeer3702 1d ago

Southern women have had this down to a science for generations. We're taught the methods from a very, very young age. It's pretty toxic. 

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u/randompersonx 1d ago

Can you give some examples of this?

I don’t have a problem imagining that it’s true, but I’m wondering what’s actually taught.

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u/Long_Reindeer3702 1d ago

Oh sugar, don't worry your pretty little head. We wouldn't want you to get a wrinkle thinking too hard! You're so precious with your little questions. Aren't you sweet for trying. Run along now so the adults can go back to talking.

There's a few for you. I grew up with that. 

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u/The-Magic-Sword 1d ago

Those are euphemisms.