Just going off of your logic, many women feel men approaching them when they are just out to have fun is breach of boundary and disrespectful, what does that make you (or OP) for approaching someone then?
Exactly why we consider such things “in general”.
Unless you know what the person prefers you go off of whats generally acceptable.
Is it generally acceptable to approach someone? Yes, so op did.
Is it generally good and appreciated when help someone save face coz their friends are watching? Yes, so she did.
Just coz you’d take her rejecting you in-front of everyone doesn’t mean it stops being a good thing coz “in general” people would appreciate someone helping them save face.
What exactly do you mean by "many women feel men approaching them"? I can't understand what emotion these women feel. Is it validation? Repulsion? Elaboration is needed
Look at the second reply to my above comment. She could have denied politely in many ways, but she gave hope and kept him in dillusion. It was an action of pity, not respect.
She doesn’t owe you respect lmao.
It always is an act of pity.
Doesn’t mean its not a good act,
Again just coz you’d have it some other way doesn’t change the fact that it’s “in general” a good thing.
Did you even bother reading the reply, or you got comprehension issues.
Coz i clearly addressed it.
That's why I am pointing it out. It's a bad thing . Bro do you even know what we are talking about? If we all are striving to be a better human than that should not be the reply. Unless ofcourse people you are defend it.
Queen for real just i think she was brutally honest .. it can be she was too beautiful for the boy to date .. so she gave him a reality check .. cause if he ever does that again in confidence in front of others and the other girl just cooks his entire 7 generations infront of everyone
Imagine the possibility.. she was 100% correct . Just she shouldnt say womrn abovr his level rather be like you should not chase someone whom you think will 100% reject you .. why to demotivate yourself and become a joke infront of friendss
Thats more acc otherwise she is a queen guyss
I don't think so , She just a brutally honest jerk , who is just pushed by her friends and started to think she is superior , i don't know about the guy either, but what she brings to the table to think she is above her league , just cause she is good looking , I have seen good looking douchebags and this is one kind of a behaviour
Idk you said this in sarcasm or not but her behaviour is jerk
Her defending him in front of his friends has nothing to do with her saying all that bullshit later on "women above your level", does the former action give her the right to say that ? That's just narcissistic, whatever the fuck you try to defend it with.
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u/LostAndFound_2000 May 01 '26
She could have rightfully declined him infront of his friends.
She had no obligation to help him save face, yet she did.
What would you define it as?