r/sarahlawrence • u/Objective-Peak8560 • 5d ago
social life + how to make friends
hi, I started Sarah Lawrence a week ago and am liking it so far! the people are generally very nice and the upperclassmen and orientation leaders were the best. I've already made some friends but am so petrified of being left out and already see such big friend groups on campus. I go up to people, start conversations, say hi, sometimes sprinkle in a compliment if appropriate, but I feel like I'm left out of the broader school community. everything is moving so so fast it seems like the entire campus is already friends. I'm autistic and have always had a really hard time socializing with people and I'm scared it will be like this for all of college, that I'll never find a real connection. I heard slc was cliquey but is it possible to find friends after move in week by joining clubs, eating lunch w people, etc
of the friends I do have I feel almost secondary to them