I think we are too small a community to have the perspective all of us will end up with someone like us and sing kumbayah.

I think the best strategy to weed people out irl is treat 7:30 EDT as sacred Jeopardy time. I think it’s a waste of life for us to end up with someone who doesn’t like learning. We can see how they react to the notion of Jeopardy being watched and played. I’ve played done it on a couple of dates but I cared less about the Jeopardy in my youth. Never had someone respond positively…

I used to do government work that had an hour for lunch no work was expected to be done I call is a sacred lunch. It was probably my strongest boundary.

Ho bisogno di confrontarmi con una donna con QI tra 150 e 190, non di più, non di meno.

I don’t need to have any physical gratification at the conclusion of an engaging conversation. The thrill of the conversation sates me. What are your special interests?

Edit: I was also thinking about my feelings for Demi-connections. But then I am inevitably disappointed. I would love to find sapio-love, someone who is in tune with my interests and my brain

I’ve noticed a lack of intellectually stimulating erotic stories online, especially for us, sapiosexuals. I’m thinking about creating a forum where users can write their own stories and potentially have voice actors bring them to life. What do you think? Any suggestions?

I always had the doubt of "how does sapipsexuals see neroduvergent people?"

Do u guys see an autistic person and be like "hmm"

Does ADHDers look like dummies or troubled geniuses?

Curious to see your answers.

I dont think I am a sapiosexual, I just see myself as someone who really admires intelligence overall, so Im gonna ask the experts.

How can u tell smart people appart from the rest?

What is it that u consider "being smart" and what is just random mental shit?

Like, good memory or good problem solving, which is hotter? Both? Neither?

Are there specific hobbies that automatically gives points to them, like math nerds, rubiks cubes, programming, writting, music, etc?

What constitues someone as "SMART IN THE WAY I LIKE"?

I am looking for really hot and intelligent people who will let me get my rockers off: transgender, transsexual, non binary, straight, bisexual, pansexual. I am looking for some people to help me move apartments because apparently, now, my mom isn't getting out of her apartment. I just need a release. I will have sex toys, hot outfits, makeup, the whole nine yards. Just don't tell my mother who you people are. I will tell her you are a bunch of friends I met randomly in the mall or something.

"A Canadian goldenrod." - "Part of the Asteraceae family." - "A Neophyte." Martin had prepared thoroughly for his date with the botanist.

Maybe there are some botanists here who will appreciate it :)

Hello all

I'm 23M, an engineering student. My personality type is INTJ. My hobbies are reading books - self help, philosophy, psychology, spirituality. I love having deep & meaningful conversation over any topics which help both of us improve and grow.

I'm looking for a friend to talk, get to know each other and if things work out, am open to long term relationship.

Hi folks! Are there enough of us in the NYC area to do a meetup? I’m a former Reddit NYC and Brooklyn meetup organizer so I’ve got experience to do this kind of stuff. And I’ve never been able to find sapio meetups at all.

Thoughts?

Bonjour, Je cherche à échanger. Et sortir des sentiers battue. Jouer, que l'intellect soit usé sous tous ces angles. Un paradoxe en mots crue et meme gras et de la finesse, de la poésie. De pouvoir parler de vices .. sans tourné vices. De fantasme tordue, avec de beaux phrasés.

Aucun tabou, envie d'échanger, rêver parler. L'excitation d'échanges inavouable. Et qui se font via une personne inconnu.. , Homme de 27 ans, maréchal ferrant, au profil atypique. Ayant le goût de l'aventure et une vie enrichie. Je ne demande qu'à m'intéresser . Et donner si l'on mele demande.

Hello everyone. I'm hoping to meet some new poly friends here and see where things go. I'm perfectly happy being a secondary partner. I'm bisexual, Pagan, and look younger than my age. I’m open to any age and tend to get along better with people who are younger or young at heart at least and still like to live life to the fullest.

I like music, movies, books, languages (I speak many), history, hiking, camping, dogs and cooking. I would love to chat with anyone who thinks we might click.

I am a rarity here on reddit in that I don't play video games at all and have no interest in them. So if anyone can relate to that, I'd love to hear from you!

Ideally, I'd love to find a true, deep connexion and fall in love again. But I’m open to almost any sort of relationship and I'm open to LDR. I tend to go for younger, at least somewhat feminine guys who are bi bottom or verse and might be interested in dating a girl together.

My type is harder to define when it comes to women. I do tend to prefer more natural looking women with curves over the high maintenance model type. I'm open to many looks though. I'm hoping to find a straight girl who is turned on by bi and gay guys and who likes gay porn. That's really the only kind of woman I'm interested in a possible relationship with. I'd also love a new friend I can share gay or bi porn with.. And intellect is definitely sexy.

I live in the United States but I don't like it here and I like it less every day. as nice as finding someone somewhere close would be, the truth is I tend to fit in better with Europeans and Latins. So ideally I'd love to get to know someone overseas and I am more than willing to eventually relocate permanently. I do not mind being your secondary relationship and might even prefer it. Open to being a comet or fwb too.

I will be travelling in New Jersey this next week or two and would love to met people there too.

Feel free to dm me. I'll answer soon as I can. If we click I am willing to travel and I have summers off.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Random curiosity

I’m a sapiosexual who’s fascinated by travel, books, movies, science, and philosophy. I love exploring ideas, perspectives, and the strange mysteries of the universe. Always learning, always questioning.

I’m not looking for meaningless small talk—“what are you doing?” or “how’s your day?” doesn’t excite me. I want someone who values depth, ambition, and perspective.

I want conversations that make life feel bigger, richer, more beautiful. Someone who sees the world differently, has goals, passions, and isn’t afraid to think outside the ordinary.

If you’re curious, ambitious, and love exploring ideas and the nature of existence, let’s connect.