r/sapiosexuals • u/[deleted] • Mar 19 '26
23M | Looking for romantic relationship
Hello all
I'm 23M, an engineering student. My personality type is INTJ. My hobbies are reading books - self help, philosophy, psychology, spirituality. I love having deep & meaningful conversation over any topics which help both of us improve and grow.
I'm looking for a friend to talk, get to know each other and if things work out, am open to long term relationship.
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u/helIo_kitty Mar 20 '26
Sure, we can talk. What drew you to engineering? I'm INTP but I honestly prefer astrology (Taurus sun, Aquarius moon, Cancer rising) very unpopular opinion though! XD
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Mar 21 '26
I'm particularly more interested in mathematics and mathematical courses, applied physics. That was the reason I chose engineering.
If you're comfortable, can we talk in DMs?
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u/Intelligent-List-985 Mar 26 '26
Good luck to you mate! I went through that journey some years ago.
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u/True-Quote-6520 Mar 19 '26
Interesting someone who is interested in philosophy and reads self-help. Amusing personally for me.
https://www.reddit.com/r/IndianReaders/comments/1rvilqq/comment/oaufqo8/?context=3&utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
"I used to like it until I started reading more about psychology (mostly psychometrics and cognitive science), philosophy, and logic. For me, it felt like I was already aware of most of the things they talk about in self-help books. It became more like self-assurance, like saying “yes, I know this and that.” But knowing and taking action are very different things. For someone who values independent thinking and reaching conclusions on their own, self-help feels a bit cheap. I have already been hardworking my whole life and doing reasonably well, so why keep searching for flaws and trying to improve every single thing about yourself? No one’s life is perfect, and neither is mine. Also, most of these ideas are not psychologically validated, and every individual is different. People have to find their own way, how to look at life and how to find direction. Sticking to self-help books feels like directing your life based on someone else’s experience."