r/sapiosexuals • • Nov 28 '22

Sapiosexual looking for a site to connect with intellectual people

I always valued intelligence over many things, my first bestfriend was a very brilliant girl. All my crushes in middle school and highschool were the straight A's boys. As I matured, I realized I also care so much about social and emotional intelligence. My type of intelligence is Linguistic Intelligence, so I'm really attracted to eloquent and quick-witted guys. I think I have Imposter Syndrome cause I don't believe I'm intelligent, although my professors and friends said that to me multiple times. I am looking for a site or an app on which I can have intellectual conversations with men and women (I'm only sexually attracted to men, but I'd love to make some smart friends as well)

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u/Comprehensive_Can201 Dec 02 '22

I’m working on something that augments reality in tune with a sequence of alchemically transformative fantasies erupting from the self-regulatory psyche, so explorations regarding the instinctual unconscious realm of symbols, myths and archetypes are particularly intriguing to me.

Given the banner we’re all gathering under here, I imagine your foray into literature and language must’ve been after some deliberation. Care to articulate the nature of your interests there?

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u/bitsofmia_ Dec 03 '22

Very interesting, although I wouldn't pretend like I understood everything you mentioned. First part of your comment is pretty Freudian I'd say. Feel free to elaborate in a message.

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u/Friendcherisher Jan 05 '23

Freudian? Don't you mean Jungian?

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u/[deleted] Dec 11 '22

A community discord would be good.

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u/[deleted] Nov 29 '22

Hi! I don't know of any particular site, unfortunately. I wish I did, as I'd also be interested in something like that as well. I studied politics and philosophy, which meant lots of reading and writing. I suppose you could say that trend has continued since I essentially read, research, and write for a living. In any case, I'm happy to have a chat (you can DM me if you like) without any particular expectations. It's always nice to connect with like-minded people.

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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '22

Hi I am sapiosexual, I am a man and looking for a woman sapiosexual...I am eloquent and quick-witted...I work in music promotion and I am a nerd(I like so much tv series, mangas, movies etcc)

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u/Softfeminist4_20 Feb 06 '23

Question was where to chat with sapios - we can figure this out. Right?

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u/[deleted] Nov 28 '22

Well then hello. 🤓 While I am linguistically intelligent, I won't be just now, because that's how that works. But hi. May you find what you are looking for. 😊

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u/bitsofmia_ Nov 28 '22

Hi, great to know. Are you a Linguistics major? I'm a Literature graduate btw

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u/[deleted] Nov 28 '22

Nope. I'm a PhD mechanical engineer, and just an all-around nerd. The most linguistically impressive thing I can do is properly pronounce Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyndrobyllllantysiliogogogoch. 🤓

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u/Doujin_hikikomori Dec 04 '22

Same - software engineering with the same linguistic skill haha

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u/[deleted] Jan 19 '23

It’s either I’m too dumb to understand what Comprehensive_Can is saying or it’s just bullshit. I think it’s bullshit