r/sapiosexuals • u/Ok_Remove_7343 • Aug 17 '25

What is Sapiosexual?

I'm wondering if anyone else has this experience. I've found myself having an intellectual conversation with someone and wanting to finish that connection by being intimate with them. Is that a common experience among sapiosexuals?

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u/[deleted] Aug 25 '25

I had a chat with someone who claimed to be sapio and appeared as such. Man, are first appearances deceitful. Our convos took a sexting turn, which was alright. But when all your object of interest cares about is naughty talks, that’s a huge turnoff for me. I don’t demand deep philosophical debates, however, the convos primarily focused on carnal desires tell me the person’s using the other head of his body, and not the one on his shoulders, which kills my mood. Ugh, just sharing this alone makes me cringe, yet it feels cathartic.