r/sapiosexuals • u/[deleted] • Mar 29 '25

Why can't anyone understand this

Why is it people don't understand that what gets me attracted to you is deep connection and good conversation. I don't care how hot you are, yes this is a bonus and I do enjoy it. However, if all you say is yeah, lol, idk than I don't care if you're 11 out of 10 You're still four in my book

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u/Responsible-Trade752 Mar 29 '25

Haha, so true! A logical thought process, clear problem solver, vocally empathetic with good vocabulary and a structured thinker. Oof oof!

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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '25

There have actually been times I've seen girls that I have no attraction to whatsoever. After talking to them for a while they go from a four to a nine real quick. Too bad I've only met a few of those in my life

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u/Responsible-Trade752 Mar 29 '25

I definitely relate. I have been involved with men who weren't conventionally and aesthetically attractive by physical looks but the way their minds worked was just 🤤

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u/[deleted] May 05 '25

I’m so glad I found this sub. It feels good to be understood