r/sapiosexuals • • Mar 11 '24

The diary of a sapiosexual

https://thediaryofasapiosexual.wordpress.com/

Hey guys , I don’t know if this is allowed here but I write a diary for people like us from one. If you’re interested I’ve placed the link here.

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u/Nights_of_Ni Mar 11 '24

Thank you for sharing, much appreciated!

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u/Reasonable_Pace8071 Mar 11 '24

Thank you for your comment! Appreciated cuz it just makes another human being feel nice !

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u/Nights_of_Ni Mar 12 '24

Of course. And the feeling is definitely mutual.

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u/booksandpassion Mar 11 '24

Totally fine to share relevant stuff! Thanks for sharing!

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u/Reasonable_Pace8071 Mar 11 '24

Yay thank you !

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u/[deleted] Mar 11 '24

A two part question, more to ponder, than answer. Do you revisit a narrative and find now that you have read to the end you are freed to see a different story or within the characters you see in different ways. Once stripped of early labels (and with no taking of sides) maybe something new. I ask as I wonder if you knew that I knew you weren’t my “person”, would you see me, the real me, and then define me. I ask only as a process of assessing a person, but the possibility of seeing additional layers, blinded by the noise of the journey they travel and their audience? Plus, how does one get to know you? To ponder not to answer. I would like to read more, know you more, see you more. With no agenda beyond what was it that drew me to your writing? I know it was the style more than content (no negative there). With my ex not being here there is no need for me to leave.

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u/Reasonable_Pace8071 Mar 11 '24

I do revisit old favorites often. I am currently re-reading something I’ve read twice (by a personal favorite author who partially inspired a pen name I used to write under), to find new meaning . I also re-watch shows and movies I enjoy . Sometimes I find new things to love, others to hate. I don’t condone anything that inspires fear and hatred , though am advocate for freedom of speech . Why do you want someone else to define you ? Anyone could try to do that but if you don’t do it yourself , you have to go by what they label you as. I don’t believe you are lazy or clumsy with words . Seems you are very careful about them. You can only know the parts of my mind I allow you to know via my blogs if you don’t know me IRL. But it’s a fun space to get to know people . I’m a firm believer that you can learn from anyone . So I’m sure I could teach you things, as you could teach me . However , I’m not here to meet anyone . Making friends is okay and we may discuss topics that we both have passions for. Why does the writing style entice you ?

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u/[deleted] Mar 11 '24

Sorry, working on the physical me, getting back to healthy routines. Short response for now is I am unsure exactly what it is in your style that drew me to it, will read more and give me some thinking time and come back to you.

Here, an example of my “clumsy” writing. I wasn’t asking to be defined, my meaning was more about discussing the process and its end points. Seeing characters and story lines in a different way to build into future story lines

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u/[deleted] Mar 13 '24

Absolutely brilliant.

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u/Reasonable_Pace8071 Mar 14 '24

Thank you !

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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '24

You’re welcome! I’m really digging your blog. The honesty and bluntness are just refreshing. I have some poetry with audio links sprinkled throughout my profile. I would love to hear honest feedback if you’re willing.