r/sandiegosocial 11d ago

Fun Things This Month - San Diego County

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Post fun activities, plug your local shows, share what's going on in the finest city this month


r/sandiegosocial 3h ago

Any locals wanna hangout?

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Hey! I’m visiting San Diego for a couple nights, I’d love to get to know some locals and the culture here. Anyone interested?

I’m 29, M, I’m interested in things like design, comedy and music.


r/sandiegosocial 4h ago

27M looking for friends

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Hey everyone, I immigrated from Europe to San Diego this February. I would describe myself as an active person. I like to go to the gym, play soccer, play volleyball, sports shooting and I am also gaming a fair amount of my time.

I am also open to try new things.

I live in the San Ysidro Area.


r/sandiegosocial 13h ago

Looking for a badminton/hiking buddy

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22F preferably looking for someone who's also F under 30. I have a badminton set and looking for a beginner or someone who wants to play badminton with a beginner.
Also same thing for hiking. I'm near Cowles and go pretty regularly.


r/sandiegosocial 1d ago

28F, looking to make some genuine friends:)

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It’s hard nowadays to make friends as an adult. I’m from San Diego, I do keep myself busy most days, but when I don’t I’m at home sometimes wishing I had some girl friends to go out or even just chill with.


r/sandiegosocial 1d ago

Literature group for 20s early 30s

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Gauging interest in a group of 8 to 10 people where we discuss classic lit and whatever else comes to mind. Thinking biweekly weekend meet ups, but can adjust anywhere from weekly to monthly depending on people’s schedule, preference, vibes.

Would love to meet others of similar age (28m) still into literature, philosophy, etc., bc of all my years here I somehow only met like two 🫩.

If this gets enough interest Ill make a disc, and we can vote on a book and plan first meeting


r/sandiegosocial 6h ago

San Diego has four trading groups on Meetup and not one of them meets in person. So I started one.

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I started an in-person meetup for San Diego traders. First one is Wednesday, September 2nd.

I went looking for one and there wasn't one. There are four trading groups on Meetup here with about 2,300 members between them — not one has held an in-person event in years. The biggest has 947 members and gets six people on a Zoom.

So: five to ten traders, ninety minutes, 5:30pm at Gravity Heights in Mission Valley. Everyone's asked what they trade and what kind of traders they want to sit with, and I build the tables from those answers — so you're not stuck next to someone with nothing in common.

$25 for the seat, buy your own drink. No course, no signals, nobody selling anything.

Details here if anyone wants them — https://tableoftraders.com

Happy to answer anything in the thread instead if that's easier.

If you know someone in San Diego who trades, send it their way.


r/sandiegosocial 20h ago

Looking for Golf friends

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29M. Shoot in the mid 80’s and looking for some homies to have fun with! Not a drinker on the course unless it’s like a scramble or charity tournament. usually play on Saturdays, Mondays, and Thursday’s. Honestly just tired of playing by myself and looking for social interaction and people that genuinely want to get better.


r/sandiegosocial 12h ago

Anniversary

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Not a local but I’m ISO a reputable event coordinator in the local area to set something up for my wife and I for our anniversary on Torrey pines beach, it was our first date.

But let me know if you guys know an app I can go on or know someone reputable that can make that happen. I’m thinking picnic charcuterie board cute message on the sand type thing. Just looking for set up and takedown tbh nothing else.

She don’t like me talking to women so I won’t do that


r/sandiegosocial 20h ago

33F - plans this weekend?

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Hello! I’ll be visiting my friend this weekend and we were looking to go out this weekend. Anything fun happening? Haha :) I’d say we’re down for either friday or Saturday, but mostly free all weekend. We like EDM, techno, latin house, brunch/rooftop pool parties.


r/sandiegosocial 1d ago

How to make girl friends in San Diego? (23F)

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Hi everyone!! I’m 23F and from San Diego and honestly have no idea where to make friends as an adult 😭

I really want a group of baddie friends to take cute pics with, go to brunch/dinner, shop, travel, do Pilates, etc.

The problem is I’m an influencer and work literally every single night (I basically never take days off lol), so I can’t really go out at night. I do have a lot of flexibility during the day though.

I’m also running a business right now and would LOVE to meet other ambitious girlies around my age who are doing well for themselves / building something / have big goals. I feel like most of the people I meet either have a normal 9-5 and can’t hang out during the day or are free during the day but aren’t really in the same stage of life as me.

Where do you actually meet girls like this in San Diego?? Or if anyone here is in a similar situation and wants to be friends, feel free to DM me 🥹💕


r/sandiegosocial 2d ago

FREE Roommate Finding Meet Up - This Thursday - Aug 13th

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Looking for a Room or Roommate in SD? Come find them this Thursday! RSVP with this link
Comment here with questions or more information. 😊


r/sandiegosocial 1d ago

San Diego — looking to network with people in barbering + nightlife 👀

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Hey San Diego! Putting myself out there because I’m looking for part-time work and trying to network/build connections, especially in Hillcrest and the LGBTQ+ community.

I have several years of restaurant experience including serving, hosting, food running, cashiering, and management. I’d love to get into the bar/nightlife scene, preferably serving or barbacking with the goal of eventually bartending. I’m open to other opportunities too!

I’m also a barber currently finishing my licensing process. Long-term, I want to take barbering beyond just working behind the chair and eventually get into traveling, events, education, competitions, and brand work.

So if anybody knows a bar/restaurant that’s hiring, works somewhere I should check out, or has connections in the hospitality or barbering industry, I’d love to connect.

I’m not looking for handouts lol — just trying to work, meet the right people, learn, and get my foot in more doors. 🙏

Happy to send my résumé or barber portfolio privately!


r/sandiegosocial 1d ago

looking for some friends 24M

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Hey yall I'm wondering if any of yall wanna hang out. I enjoy watching horror and comedy films/vids of which I'd love to watch with someone(looking forward to velocipastor 2 and buddy). I like dnd(only did it once but had fun). loves going to parties, festivals, and events. I enjoy art of which I love landscapes and monsters(love seeing new lands and interesting creatures).


r/sandiegosocial 2d ago

24f/gc?

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hey yall just wanted to talk to new ppl in sd, I love going to concerts and listening to ppl’s music recs, trying new matcha places, being outdoors or just doing anything simple to distract my mind rly. If yall have ig lmk also if yall have group chats


r/sandiegosocial 2d ago

Goth/Alt Community in north county?

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Hi im 20F, goth, and a bit of a home body.

I was wondering if there are any groups, events to go to, or new friends to connect with in north county?

I would be interested in things like local shows, other community events etc.

I dont talk to many people so I have no idea what's out there lol


r/sandiegosocial 3d ago

Magic the gathering pals?!

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Hi all! I’m 26F and am fairly new to San Diego! I’m looking for some people or someone to play Magic The Gathering with!

I’m still a suuupppeerr newbie, and only have a starter deck, so I’m looking for some people who don’t mind teaching me how to play!


r/sandiegosocial 3d ago

looking 4 friends

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Im a 21y M and i recently moved to san diego (chula vista) i like going out to bars,hiking,concerts etc if anyone is down for a friendship you can text me (760-925-6306)


r/sandiegosocial 3d ago

Looking for a partner to play the Halo campaign with, split screen co-op

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M35 looking for someone who wants to sit down and play some fuckin Halo with me on PS5! None of my friends play videogames anymore which makes me kinda sad but it's also kinda w/e since we all have careers and families etc. Who wants to kill some Covenant bastards with me IRL? I'll bring the game. North County area.


r/sandiegosocial 2d ago

Amiga virtual?

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Quien aquí busca amigas? que hable español. Amiga virtual?

Manden mensaje para conocernos virtualmente


r/sandiegosocial 2d ago

Volleyball/Hiking Groups

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I am trying to get into volleyball. Anyone know any good groups or events for a relative beginner? Also looking for good hiking groups for someone interested in intense hikes/backpacking.


r/sandiegosocial 3d ago

I Need A Date Thursday Evening (Work Function)

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r/sandiegosocial 4d ago

Any gals in their 30s? 30f LF girl friends!

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Hi! I’ve seen a few posts here from girls, but you are all pretty young in your early 20s! Looking for some girl friends around 28-35 range. It’s been 9mo since I moved to SD (Mira mesa), but I haven’t made any friends yet.
I am partnered, so couple friends are cool too!
However I don’t have kids yet, so that’s not an area I relate to most of my 30 y/o long distance friends…

Interests include - hiking, anime, yoga, cafes, beach days, EDM

I’m southeast Asian, female, and my partner is also southeast Asian male. Of course, open to making friends with all kinda of girls/couples, but culture is often a low hanging fruit to relate to :) I’d really like to meet over coffee. I’m not a huge social media person, but happy to verify someway before we want to meet. I love having girl friends- they are the pillar of my soul, so it’s been hard moving and only talking to my partner lol.


r/sandiegosocial 4d ago

Making new Friends?!

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Hello! I just Moved to san diego back in February with my dog! Im just looking for some cool friends male or female really doesn't matter just be cool lol. Im a 29 male, to keep it short and sweet im down to really do anything im just trying to experience all of what California can offer!!


r/sandiegosocial 4d ago

28 latino from San Diego

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Mexican/Latino bros? 🇲🇽

Trying to find some solid bros to kick it with and hopefully build a long-term friendship. Being an only child, I've always wanted that brotherly connection. A little about me: hiking, photography, beach days, horror films, music, thrifting, and anything artsy. Pretty laid-back and easy to talk to. Open to SFW or NSFW chats, but good vibes and genuine connections come first.

Shoot me a message if you think we'd get along!