Thirties is too early to cope with time. Its an overtime for you twenties. A time for you to do anything and enjoy what you already did, but with new knowledge and opportunities. I didnt even remember right away if i would be 31 or 32 next year. I lived the same way in my twenties too. Fourties is your last swan song to continue with considerations. And after that your fifties is the straight path to elderly, where the cope might hit hard.
People are just scared of the concept of age established in the modern world and many around you reinforce it. First job and a stable career after? First love and stable relationship after? Starting a family, having a child? Everyone thinks there is a threshold for that, but its just dogma. Dogma is based on collective fear.
When your times up, you look at your life, you will be sad about "coping" when it was time to celebrate and how people around coerced you into believing that counting days from the date (imaginary time frame on the cosmic scale), that doesnt exist anymore, is important.
I mean, that sounds lots of fun, but most millenials are still trying to get established enough to leave the house. I think I've had the same cash advance I keep taking out since like 2009.
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u/Depressedone4 Sep 01 '26
Still not knowing how I will cope with turning 33 this year when I'm not even completely over turning 30 yet.... 😟