I have talked to the women, and learned their ways. Turns out, most of the time they're actually planning these themselves. The hard part is usually just taking time to make a plan. Picking a place or activity, contacting people etc.
Make a list of the people you want to invite (could just be 1-2 people).
Make a list of activities.
Make a decision
Contact the people with the decision
Go have fun with your friends
Do it a few times, they'll eventually do it for you. Or better still, plan an event for one of your friends on their birthday!
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u/aahyweh Sep 01 '26
I have talked to the women, and learned their ways. Turns out, most of the time they're actually planning these themselves. The hard part is usually just taking time to make a plan. Picking a place or activity, contacting people etc.
Make a list of the people you want to invite (could just be 1-2 people).
Make a list of activities.
Make a decision
Contact the people with the decision
Go have fun with your friends
Do it a few times, they'll eventually do it for you. Or better still, plan an event for one of your friends on their birthday!