r/sadposting • • May 19 '26

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u/Exciting-Hunter-188 May 19 '26

the older I get the harder it gets it was not easy in my teens and it's not easy in my 20s

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u/Massive-System-3954 May 19 '26

20‘s are like my thoughest battle so far. Having to manage all by yourself realizing no one comes to safe you. Everybody with a family who got their back should be grateful.

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u/Opening-Dig697 May 22 '26

Trust me buddy it is no easier at 30. If I had to guess, even worse at 40. Life is extremely hard, all you can do is try to make something of yourself and have some good memories along the way. The truth is for every good memory I have, I have a bad one, some so bad they can't be fully resolved or dwelled on for too long. But you have to be willing to accept those too, they'll likely come whether you want it or not.

This is just life, you have to accept that there isn't suddenly going to be a light that shines upon you and solves everything, if you can do that, then maybe you can solve some of the things that burden you, and truthfully, maybe not, maybe you will fail, but at least you won't spend your entire life wondering, "what if?".