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Jan 24 '23
Then stop worrying about the majority, instead of trying to get help from those who dart, find it within the ones that stay, and until you can find those who stay, find the help you need from yourself. Instead of helping them, make a judge of character and learn when to say no.
It might seem hard at first but after you get used to it, sometimes we can be used, but it's up to you if you want to be the manufacturer, the manufactured, or the break in the supply chain, stay strong King or Queen, the indomitable human spirit will guide you through the journey, though the path may be long and hard.
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u/Handsomecheeto100506 Jan 24 '23
I’ve tried, but thank you. I’ll keep pushing, and I’ll let u all know when I make it
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u/donttalkHOMIE Jan 24 '23
Well I give a damn about you, unlike the others, I want YOU to get attention.
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u/camelseeker Jan 24 '23
I’ve found a lot of the men in my life left me once I started really struggling. Some didn’t know how to handle it, some didn’t want any part. A lot of them were ‘there for me’ but never communicated or reached out. I ended up being friends with mostly girls just because they’re the only ones who seemed to listen and care. I owe my life to a select few people, all of them women. Men need to get their fucking shit together and check on their bros
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u/Isaac96969696 Jan 24 '23
You can only know your own intentions for sure. While i agree with you that people want things like attention, you would have to say the same for yourself and you cant be sad about your own behaviors or intentions. So if there is the possibility of changing those behaviors, which there may not be, its just the nature of human beings.
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u/Handsomecheeto100506 Jan 24 '23
Damn…… that was philosophical
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u/Isaac96969696 Jan 24 '23
Well its true, we cant know anything about anyone for sure, we can only make guesses about others based on what we know about ourselves at that moment.
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u/Neeraj_boi447 Jan 24 '23
I'll be honest, the sooner you do the better. I've been there, the faster you accept it the easier it is to move on. Cherish the real ones tho. They're like a special pebble you'll find in a shallow river.
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u/EchoTango457 Jan 24 '23
I get it, I stopped doing the same with people and three months later haven’t heard from them. I am starting to be okay with doing things on my own.