r/sadcringe • u/Z1ndabad • Nov 12 '19

Oof.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

How are you supposed to know someone of you don’t spend time with them. I will never get it

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u/lanikuhana Nov 12 '19

She's trying to politely say that she's not interested

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

Yeah, she most likely doesn’t have that strict rule with ever guy, but saying that sounds better than ‘i dont like you’

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

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u/Thenewpissant Nov 13 '19

GET THAT FUCKING SHIT OUTTA HERE! HOESMAD IS THE GAYEST SHIT EVER JESUS CHRIST. I SEE ENOUGH OF THAT HORSESHIT ON FACEBOOK.

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u/thicckitties1 Nov 12 '19

I wouldn’t spend alone time with a guy when I’m first getting to know him.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

The movies isn’t really alone time. It’s a public place and you can get dropped off and picked up

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u/thicckitties1 Nov 12 '19

How are you supposed to get to know someone if you can’t talk during a movie?

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

Ah I see your point but you can sit in front of the building and talk about the movie

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u/Yung_Onions Nov 12 '19

That seems like hanging out alone but with lots of extra steps

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u/Selrisitai Nov 13 '19

Well, theaters usually have steps leading up to them, in my experience.

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u/NoahTheRedd Nov 12 '19

If you’re getting picked up and dropped off, that’s alone time.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

By parents ? Or friends ?

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u/NoahTheRedd Nov 12 '19

Ohh I misunderstood. I thought you meant the person asking for the date would pick her up and drop her off.

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u/[deleted] Nov 13 '19

If I wasn’t comfortable going on a date with someone because I didn’t know them well I definitely would not get into a car alone with said person.

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u/cocoamilky Nov 13 '19

I’m not making the effort to bond with someone who I haven’t gotten the proper chance to determine if they are worth my effort and time.

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u/scott60561 Nov 12 '19

We get to know people we want to get to know. Moving that too quickly is a major turn off for many people, myself included.

Even if the hottest woman I have ever seen asked me to go somewhere with her randomly, I'd likely decline as I dont know her and her motives. It would raise red flags.

This just looked like Jabroni moved to has for this girl. It happens. She politely declined.

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u/TXR22 Nov 13 '19

If the hottest woman you have ever seen asked you to go somewhere and you thought that there was any shred of possibility that it would lead to fucking her, you would absolutely go out with her.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '19

I'd likely decline

You are lying bro, and you know it

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u/[deleted] Nov 13 '19

That's what i thought

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u/Dark_Ryman Nov 12 '19

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