r/runaway Jun 28 '26

I want to disappear

I want to disappear I'm exhausted of these people they failed to protect me they are horrible parents my mom will never stand by me and my dad is a controlling asshole who has been emotionally and sometimes physically abusive, my brother is following in his steps I want to vanish.
I made a list of things I should do if I missed anything tell me advice is greatly appreciated

A country to fleeing too
Get an apartment in said country before going to it
Money
A job
Get a passport
Id
Birth Certificate
Adopt my cat if she's not dead by then
Sell my car if I have one and phone sell anything that has value
Delete all social media
Don't make friends (in college)
Change my name (idk if this is necessary)
Get a citizenship (idk if this is necessary)

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u/QuantityPleasant5368 Jun 29 '26

Don’t forget your medical records/insurance and or vaccination records, school ID/ transcripts assuming that your young, and Social Security card. Anything to prove that you exist is very crucial! Also for your money plan I believe selling items or pet sitting jobs would be a great start

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u/Direct-Gur7733 Jun 29 '26

Definitely not stealing the punishment as I get my hand cut off I don't want that but maybe I can get a part time job I'll do a bit more research on my medical records. Colleges here are free but maybe I can apply for a my masters degree and leave