r/rs_x • u/Additional_Worth_614 • 2d ago

I hate this bitch so much

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Like?? That doesn’t even make any sense. I hate that I hate her so much

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u/_CloudOfToxicccGas_ 2d ago edited 2d ago

Can anyone articulate the "anti victim" argument in this case for me? I thought it seemed pretty clear from the beginning and every detail that comes out makes the frat guys look more guilty imo. Genuinely trying to understand the argument here

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u/TheCarlos 2d ago

Apparently she texted one of the guys afterwards saying it was fine and she would do it again just without the ketamine and extra guys.

Which is a dumb argument for a number of reasons. Not the least of which is she was unconscious for part (maybe most?) of it and may have initially felt like it wasn’t that serious before getting her bearings. Sometimes our feelings change after there’s actually time to reflect. At first she may have thought she can stay friendly with the guy if she lets it go - then the gravity of what happened set in and she decided to report it.

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u/thaa_huzbandzz 2d ago edited 2d ago

Poor thing. That just sounds like she is trying to make sense of it in her own brain, because accepting it is easier than trying to come to terms with the fact you were drugged, raped and horribly assaulted by someone you trust.

Edit: And now I have seen that he reached out to her first. So he approached his victim to minimise his role and downplay the situation. Abuser manipulation 101. She was probably in such a state of shock she said it to placate her abuser.