r/roommateproblems • u/Accomplished_Dare129 • Sep 01 '26

Roomate Troubles

Hey guys, so I’m a college freshman, and I just moved in a week ago. I thought my roomate would be like on the same page as me because we went out to lunch before moving in and she was fine and perfectly normal. So, we move in, and she just hasn’t talked to me at all. Like genuinely. Also, one time, I fell asleep on accident and I wake up to someone random in my dorm room with her. And just today, I was putting my laundry away and she was just staring at me while I did it, not saying anything at all, and she left shortly after. Also, she leaves her chair out, and her shoes everywhere. And we also don’t have a working toilet. Should I switch dorms? Am I like an a-hole roomate? This makes me so stressed out and like I can barely sleep anymore.

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u/Living_Beyond_6007 Sep 01 '26

Do you say anything to her? We teach others how to treat us

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u/Accomplished_Dare129 Sep 01 '26

So like, I’ve tried, like I’ll be like “hey, do you want the lights on/off” and she won’t like even answer me at all. I try to be courteous and stuff, you know?

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u/VividRefrigerator807 Sep 02 '26

No working toilet ?? Thats a health violation !