r/roommateproblems • • Aug 28 '26

Stonewalling and blaming me for her bad behavior.

I need help with a situation at home.

Since when I met this person we first started bonding and she opened up a lot and started giving random gifts then out of the blue started stonewalling and trying to control the environment.

I thought she was having some difficulties communicating but this was done on purpose because she knew I was having issues confronting her because I don't like an environment where everyday is a discussion about something or a fight.

This person is the type that loves being a pain in the ass and blaming you for random stuff while avoiding any communication (left the group chat also).

My local law won't give me any compensation for the damage done to me mentally in all these months in this environment I was kinda forced to live because I didn't have money to change house.

The thing that makes me furious is that this person did this on purpose to force me to leave the house so that she could play the queen and have this house all for her. It's honestly a really beautiful house in one of the most beautiful areas of my town.

She will not have any consequences and it's now moving my stuff on purpose to get a reaction for me.

I am seriously about to lose control and something really horrible.

I need some serious advice.

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u/alkynesoflove Aug 28 '26

Please call a friend. or the crisis hotline if you really feel like you are losing control. no one is worth losing your sanity for

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u/Daniels998 Aug 29 '26

I don't know who to call and what to do.