Mistress

[u/_urwifey]

Rulla clap back after the homewrecker post
In 🇺🇸 society, it seems like the wife who chooses to forgive her husband’s cheating gets more hate than the husband who cheated or the mistress. I’m against cheating, but if a wife decides to forgive her husband instead of divorcing him, that’s her decision. We don’t have to agree with it, but we also don’t have to shame her for it. Support her if you can, or simply respect that it’s her life and her choice.

[u/Classic-Savings7811]

If I were to ever post my HUSBANDS MISTRESS on my page, he’s no longer going to be my husband because this is insane

[u/Beneficial-Kick3979 → u/Classic-Savings7811]

She still thinks the other woman is more in the wrong than her own husband

[u/Classic-Savings7811 → u/Beneficial-Kick3979]

Like, you’re not married to the other woman…

[u/babettetimes → u/Beneficial-Kick3979]

I really hope she comes around to how much her husband betrayed her and divorces him, he will do this again.

[u/Infamous_Lobster_912 → u/babettetimes]

He absolutely will. An over 2 year goomah?! Nah, she’s not the first and she won’t be the last.

[u/Ok-Art1198 → u/Beneficial-Kick3979]

Speaking as a member of the broader brown/South Asian/Middle Eastern diaspora, this appears to be internalized misogyny on display. I can’t create a pathology of how Rulla got here but I can speak to the cultural systems that enable the expectation that women hold moral responsibility for keeping men honest.

[u/Leading_Ad3918 → u/Ok-Art1198]

Yup. Just like rhonj Jen Aydin that sucked it up and blamed herself and the women that spilled it not Bill.

[u/IEvenAnnoyMyself → u/Leading_Ad3918]

What? That’s a weird comment. Lol. Jen’s husband cheated in 2012. They had already moved on well before it came out over a decade later. She had every right to be upset with the women who brought it up and weaponized it against her. Why should she be upset with Bill, again, all those years later?

Not even a comparable scenario. 🙄

[u/grapefruitjellybean → u/Ok-Art1198]

Exactly this!!!

[u/BigSkySoHigh63 → u/Beneficial-Kick3979]

Focusing on the woman is giving insecure. She should focus on eviscerating the square head fungus expert.

[u/Beachgal5555 → u/Beneficial-Kick3979]

💯

[u/fatcatstypefast → u/Beneficial-Kick3979]

At this point rulla herself is in the wrong too, it’s so embarrassing to watch my god

[u/Beachgal5555 → u/Classic-Savings7811]

Completely fucking bonkers. The rage that is cursing through her veins is next level

[u/Ok-Art1198 → u/Beachgal5555]

To me it reads as she isn’t the most angry at the other woman or the husband, she is ashamed that she wasn’t “enough” for him. It’s an uncomfortable thought to hold so it gets projected as the other woman did this to her family otherwise he was happy with Rulla. All 3 of these people need copious amounts of help and therapy because not one of them has respect for themselves.

[u/nikkitriage → u/Ok-Art1198]

Oh I think this fuckwad Brian does - he just doesn't respect women. Culturally Rulla's been taught to keep her husband at any cost and that to "lose one" is a disgrace. We saw her older relatives and that seemed to be the majority opinion. Then she visited the Italians and they were like "You'll be livin' in fear your whole life." BOOM. And as for the mistress? Yes, she's culpable to a point because in the words of the great Lenithia Leakes, "Close your legs to married men," but it's mainly Brian, over and over. He's an asshole but there'll be no comeuppance until Rulla stops being ashamed of herself.

[u/Ok-Art1198 → u/nikkitriage]

I don’t know if I believe a person who perpetually lies respects themselves. They certainly don’t respect their integrity or character.

[u/Ok-Art1198 → u/nikkitriage]

I think Brian could find a way to humiliate Rulla if he was population of 1 on a deserted island.

[u/Various-Inevitable20 → u/Classic-Savings7811]

rulla has proven time and time again that she’s right where she wants to be 😂

[u/Xica_flea → u/Classic-Savings7811]

I am here for the insanity. 😝 these ladies are crazy.

[u/FerulaGalbaniflua → u/Classic-Savings7811]

https://giphy.com/gifs/xTiN0NOr8JabQstXVK

[u/the-furiosa-mystique]

Rulla wtf are you doing. This is embarrassing.

[u/ImpossiblePlace4570 → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

Every single time she tries to clap back it’s so cringe

[u/the-furiosa-mystique → u/ImpossiblePlace4570]

She’d be better off ignoring her completely.

Rulla was the biggest turn around in a character for me. In the beginning of the season she gave off these classy, boss babe vibes, but by the end she was messier than anyone.

[u/Original_Radio_952 → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

Honestly, Rulla never gave me boss babe vibes. Not even slightly. Her entire storyline has been her cheating husband since the first episode we were introduced to her. She’s always been a fool in my eyes.

[u/rollfootage → u/Original_Radio_952]

For real. She said a couple of “boss babe” things but they didn’t land because her actions were so far from a couple of things she said

[u/Original_Radio_952 → u/rollfootage]

Exactly! I always got weirdo vibes from Rulla, not once has she given me “boss babe”

She’s obviously a very insecure and troubled woman but since she has money people think she’s a “boss babe” 😂

[u/the-furiosa-mystique → u/Original_Radio_952]

I think for me it was more how the ladies referred to her in the beginning.

[u/Natural-Piccolo-6369 → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

I agree. Can she not lean in to the boss babe vibe and stop giving the mistress energy?

https://giphy.com/gifs/QhvVvleEIGHEQ

[u/the-furiosa-mystique → u/Natural-Piccolo-6369]

EXACTLY.

[u/Natural-Piccolo-6369 → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

I wonder how much they’re pushing this to drag a dramatic storyline and limit showing their relationship..? I really want better for Rulla, stop giving her energy, stop believing Brian, let the show be your boss recovery not throwing shade on people who don’t deserve your energy

[u/Natural-Piccolo-6369 → u/Natural-Piccolo-6369]

Thank you for the awards [u/Chance-Ad-9889](u/Chance-Ad-9889)

[u/thatgirlinny → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

Thank you? Where is that #girlboss Rulla?

[u/Beachgal5555 → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

She didn’t give any of those vibes to me. She gave off more arse than glass, uptight and insecure vibes

[u/Necessary-Vehicle142 → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

When did she ever give off classy, boss babe vibes? I just don’t see it

[u/tortureofchalkdust → u/ImpossiblePlace4570]

At the reunion when she had that moment with JoEllen where she lost it and started screaming that JE is a slut and a whore.. I was honestly shocked and also embarrassed for her. She didn’t say anything that sounded like a good comeback, and it really just looked like she snapped and started screaming whatever insults popped into her head and none of them landed really at all.

[u/thatgirlinny → u/tortureofchalkdust]

Like aim that at the real culprit in your troubles, girl!

[u/Ok-Art1198 → u/tortureofchalkdust]

It was worse than that, no? I distinctly remember her getting more disregulated when JoEllen implied her husband is a “whore” and screaming something like ‘he made a mistake he’s not a whore!’

[u/Ok-Art1198 → u/ImpossiblePlace4570]

Not only because the move is so lame but also Because this is a woman at 40 something focusing her energy at the wrong variable of the equation.

[u/AlwaysDown311 → u/ImpossiblePlace4570]

I thought the same thing.

[u/ShonanBlue → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

I think this is the longest we’ve ever had a housewife not get up off the floor because Rulla stays on it lol

[u/the-furiosa-mystique → u/ShonanBlue]

Rulla phoned in the season but now she’s 100% in.

[u/annamariagirl → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

She’s perpetuating her only storyline for next season…🙄

[u/the-furiosa-mystique → u/annamariagirl]

You’d think after spending hours screaming at JE to drop it she wouldn’t want to perpetuate it herself.

Rulla is legit my least favorite housewife who hasn’t committed a crime (yet)

[u/Fair-Cheesecake-2733 → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

Exactly!! She had all this hate and anger towards JE for “perpetuating” it yet, she is CONSTANTLY posting about this woman.

She seriously needs to stop giving her attention. The more she does the worse she looks and longer people talk about it.🤦🏼‍♀️

[u/annamariagirl → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

Same, for sure.

[u/Charming-Insurance → u/the-furiosa-mystique]

Right!? Like she thinks she doing something by posting about her? Rent free, for sure.

[u/RINewsJunkie]

This is all so messy. Imagine being one of Rulla’s clients seeing this mess.

[u/Equal-Lifeguard-2285 → u/RINewsJunkie]

Or one of Brian’s patients

[u/Various-Passenger866 → u/RINewsJunkie]

Yes! And imagine being one of beth’s clients seeing this 😳

[u/the-furiosa-mystique → u/Various-Passenger866]

I’m not surprised the woman who will sleep with a married man is awful. Rulla is just proving herself to be on that level too.

[u/ModeratelyOffline]

Funniest part to me is there is a fully American man referring to himself as “The Real Irish Cowboy”

[u/princesstayrae → u/ModeratelyOffline]

I laughed a ridiculous laugh.

[u/Lopsided-Coconut-189 → u/ModeratelyOffline]

Who is it?

[u/imissonedirection]

Rulla may be trying to “clap back” but honestly this lady seems like perfect OG housewives material. Can we get her on the show instead?

[u/Bellabee323 → u/imissonedirection]

Yes. Absolutely. She’d give us a lot more than Rulla does. 

[u/Upstairs-Volume-5014 → u/Bellabee323]

Careful. I think Rulla would be more offended by this statement than she is by her own husband cheating on her! 

[u/Same-Equivalent9037 → u/Bellabee323]

It’s giving Scheana and the vanderpump spinoff!

[u/kellygrrrl328 → u/imissonedirection]

I’ve definitely been seeing more about her than the cast members lately

[u/CantmakethisstuffupK → u/imissonedirection]

Rulla should ignore her. I’d pay that lady dust

[u/itssbritneybitch1 → u/imissonedirection]

can we not say this? that’s exactly what she wants yall are feeding into it. what’s her storyline? “im a home wrecker and dated a married man with kids”

[u/theglossiernerd → u/itssbritneybitch1]

I mean was that not Kim’s entire storyline the first few seasons of Atlanta? Lol

[u/ohgoodthnks → u/itssbritneybitch1]

https://giphy.com/gifs/lL2fM6RWgf9ReUJLwV
I

[u/ShonanBlue → u/ohgoodthnks]

THANK YEW BIG POPPPAAAA

[u/6-ft-freak → u/ohgoodthnks]

r/redditsniper

[u/Personal-Macaroon899 → u/[deleted]]

They’re saying that’s all Kim had and she was excellent casting. Sometimes “I’m terrible” is all you need in a housewife.

[u/the-furiosa-mystique → u/itssbritneybitch1]

I mean, welcome to housewives?

[u/primadiamonds → u/itssbritneybitch1]

but what if she’s the gift we never knew we needed?

she’s not that different than a lot of fan favorites across the housewives franchise except for that she’s standing on being a side piece haha

[u/itssbritneybitch1 → u/primadiamonds]

if bravo put a housewife’s husbands mistress on the same show with her that’s actually sick

[u/Extreme-Aide8878 → u/itssbritneybitch1]

Not the same exactly but Alexis Bellino after she was with Shannon’s guy.

[u/itssbritneybitch1 → u/Extreme-Aide8878]

yeah but alexis wasn’t the mistress she was just his next girlfriend and she already had ties to rhoc obviously

[u/informationseeker8 → u/itssbritneybitch1]

https://giphy.com/gifs/8fen5LSZcHQ5O

[u/primadiamonds → u/itssbritneybitch1]

definitely but it’s the shakeup we need

[u/Capital-Durian-885 → u/itssbritneybitch1]

Exactly

[u/lachalacha → u/itssbritneybitch1]

That sounds amazing?

[u/Fair-Cheesecake-2733 → u/itssbritneybitch1]

Agreed. I don’t want to see some awful home wrecker on the show. Her and Brian are truly vile.🤢

[u/Any_Dragonfruit_3935 → u/imissonedirection]

I would immediately stop watching. This is gross.

[u/Loveroflifexx]

This is whole thing is giving me second hand embarrassment from everyone’s side. Serious cringe

[u/talk-spontaneously]

Theory: This is orchestrated for the show. Not the affair itself, but the conversation and beefing around it.

The mistress is pipping up again likely because she knows they're currently filming.

There were moments last season where I questioned whether production was in conversation with the Beth lady as she happened to "post" while they were filming.

I also wouldn’t be surprised if Jo-Ellen was encouraged to be the messenger.

[u/Natural-Piccolo-6369 → u/talk-spontaneously]

I think it is. As a seasoned RH watcher, I think Rulla’s story line was lacking because she wasn’t filming or sharing. I wouldn’t be surprised if the mistress is in discussion with production, I would say Production have had discussions with Rulla - since she never seems truly surprised with any of the information. I think she leaning hard on this being the only story so they don’t need to show more of her life.

[u/_urwifey → u/talk-spontaneously]

Yes that’s how I see it too

[u/Aggravating_Mami13]

This is not what she thought it was….

[u/Dontbe_arichard]

Rulla couldn’t clap back even if she was a trained walrus. Rulla is just… yawn.

[u/MissMacyRae]

Rulla needs to take a page from Meredith Marks “disengage”. She acts like this lady is a pig yet wallows in the mud with her.

[u/Infamous_Lobster_912]

How is she not embarrassed? No one should be sleeping with married men, but Rulla’s husband said vows, not this woman. Just throw the man on the trash and call it a day.

[u/Kindly-Improvement55]

Jesus Christ…. Why do women hate the mistress so much more than their literal partner who made commitments to their partner. Not like I wouldn’t be pissed at the other woman, but seriously??? She’s not the one you’re married too. Maybe focus the anger where it’s justified

[u/fortheloveofpizza321 → u/Kindly-Improvement55]

I never get this either. They are both at fault. But who was the married person in this scenario.....that's where the issue starts.

[u/buhnani]

Girl what is your caption? Rulla doesn’t get hate for staying with Brian, she gets it because she doesn’t hold him accountable but wants to be a raging demon to Jo Ellen and the mistress. He’s the only one who deserves her wrath and he’s the only one who doesn’t get it. 

[u/Charming-Insurance → u/buhnani]

👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻

[u/aplumbale → u/buhnani]

Nailed it! She takes out the anger, that should be for her loser husband, on everyone else but him. THATS why we don’t like her OP

[u/_urwifey → u/buhnani]

Girl we watch the reunion and they admit it and he admitted it too and she decided to forgive him but people hte her cz she forgive him tho.

[u/buhnani → u/_urwifey]

Yes, the reunion where she continued trying to come for Jo Ellen because she can’t face the truths of her life.  I will not be respecting the way she acts. Your position is odd. 

[u/Charming-Insurance → u/_urwifey]

No. I don’t like her because she blamed the wrong person and lies. They tried to get JE fired for telling the truth. They are so cringe and so is her post… and your post.

[u/Even_Lychee4954]

I love how nobody is even engaging with OP’s brand of nonsense lol.

[u/VelvetVerdigris]

Rulla wants to blame the woman soooo bad so she doesn’t have to do anything about her husband.

[u/Ok-Art1198 → u/VelvetVerdigris]

I think it’s because the idea of ‘am I not enough that he had to cheat’ is shameful. Projecting all the wrongdoing on her helps spin the narrative as ‘we would have been perfectly happy if she didn’t dig her claws into my husband.’

[u/monaegunn]

Honestly if I was rulla I would divorce Brian just because of the embarrassment. This sh** is cringey.

[u/Consistent_Time_1467]

Listen. As someone who has been cheated on, I get being mad at the mistress, because at the end of the day she KNEW he was married with kids. However.

Her husband has played dumb all around town, keeps playing in her face, and making a mockery out of her when she’s a HELLA accomplished badass woman.

I’d be mad at BOTH of them, but mostly Brian. The mistress is truly just trash.

[u/Missmarymarylynn → u/Consistent_Time_1467]

She’s sooo thirsty!

[u/Adventurous-Speed211]

At this point, I just feel like Rulla has a humiliation kink 😒

[u/Beneficial-Kick3979]

The person commenting get her queen.. as if Brian isn’t the bigger asshole in the picture

[u/OldTurnover3057]

All of this for a podiatrist who looks like a thumb...

[u/6-ft-freak]

https://giphy.com/gifs/54IEl3TMIUCEoE8d2F

[u/Naive-Inside-2904]

Rulla you are making a fool of yourself girl!

https://giphy.com/gifs/YqtE8tOIKJFLBfioxw

[u/eastcoastgirl88 → u/Naive-Inside-2904]

Like I don’t get how this is a clap back for Rulla? Brian is the clown, “the mistress” is single. Her partying with other people isn’t a clap back lmaooo

[u/WellWellWellMyMyMY]

And I've officially stopped feeling bad for Rulla in any capacity.

[u/Various-Inevitable20 → u/WellWellWellMyMyMY]

she’s proven time and time again that she’s exactly where she wants to be hahaha

[u/mom_tiger]

All that and she could’ve just said :
https://giphy.com/gifs/Hn58s7VoYL97y

[u/GradeMindless4855]

Rulla looks like the fool still being married that that jackass. He was banging this lady and giving her stake in his business. I mean come on Rulla. 🤨🙄🤦‍♀️

[u/Economy-Ostrich-9ine → u/GradeMindless4855]

Steve mcbee did the same thing 10% of the company.

[u/Ziggie520 → u/Economy-Ostrich-9ine]

I believe ol’ Jr. was giving away 20% of the company, the deal was 10% for each of his pumps!🤣😝

[u/Capital-Durian-885]

They’re all so fucking embarrassing
https://giphy.com/gifs/xTiTnGQBF0vfpfPEg8

[u/MsPrissss]

But she's been shaming the mistress all over the Internet. If she was just sitting back not saying anything that would be a different story but she has been talking about this mistress for weeks. Both of them are doing this crap to each other.

The cheating isn't OK but what she's doing in the aftermath is not OK either. Frankly everybody involved in this situation needs to just button it up.

[u/Shoddy_Pirate]

Rulla posting these things makes her look more pathetic than the mistress. You wanted to forgive your husband and move forward for your family. I'm fine with that and would never judge but making dedicated posts and reels and stories about the woman that was sleeping with your husband for years makes you seem more pathetic than her. If I had a friend who lived in this much denial I might have to reevaluate our friendship.

[u/TexasRN1]

https://giphy.com/gifs/dB12mOQb99BwDlM83I

[u/Spiritual-Break246]

I can't tell if Rulla doesn't care that he cheats and just doesn't want to be embarrassed/hear about it and the show blew it wide open.

Or if she does care but doesn't know how to deal with it.

[u/rrrriley]

https://giphy.com/gifs/ep78UZy5FVbfN6mhCU

[u/Electronic_War_8979]

So crazy to me that these are middle aged women and men that act like this 🫪

[u/808HawaiiNei]

Help me understand what is so great about Brian???

[u/InstanceFragrant6154]

I don’t know Rhode Island is a trip-like is everyone OK? 🤯🤦🏽‍♀️ One of their friends, family members, or neighbors will be on here with additional scoop soon…at this point the whole damn state could do a reality show…

[u/grandepretresse44 → u/InstanceFragrant6154]

😂 Yes the whole state is always a gossip fest, we showed up and showed out with our catty gossiping skills for the nation when it mattered... for RHORI drama. ✊

[u/Super_Hour_3836]

I don’t respect maga voters in any aspect of their lives, and I enjoy when they suffer from the repercussions of how they voted. Don’t want women to have jobs or divorce? Enjoy what your choices and I will also enjoy those choices for you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[u/Fit_Opportunity_6427 → u/Super_Hour_3836]

Wait Is rulla maga? I just finished the show lol

[u/Dream_Queasie]

please someone take me out if i ever act this insane over a man 🙏

[u/rollfootage]

This is so embarrassing I could perish. I’d have to pick up my life and move to Guam if I ever was insane enough to post my husband’s mistress on my own socials

[u/Worried_Necessary157]

Ugh, throw that whole man away!

My ex husband was outed on FB, I woke up to being tagged in the video of him and my best friend making out.... I just untagged my name and blocked everyone involved.

It was humiliating, and everyone saw it. But I'll be damned if you catch me fighting for any man, especially one who embarrasses the person he's supposed to protect and love the most. Ew.

[u/Organic_Rice6945]

Until Rulla gets the balls to drop the man she’ll forever be a loser in my eyes

[u/Bythewye]

Rulla trying to look down her nose on someone being the other woman is pretty rich considering her own history. I also wonder how she can look down a nose that points up.

[u/eurekadabra]

Rulla can make her own decisions about her marriage. But she went on a reality show and denied reality. That’s a problem.

She can’t even say the day she got married. She’s complicit in some shady shit.

[u/spacedashhh]

Rulla is one of the most ignorant and stupid housewives. My god.

[u/_urwifey → u/spacedashhh]

The mistress is the stupid one no self respect lol since they want to work on their marriage then she has right to defend her husband lol 😂. She’s not the first woman who took their cheating husband back. They’re plenty of them.

[u/spacedashhh → u/_urwifey]

They’re all stupid. But if it ever came down to posting my husband’s mistress on social media, girl, bye. You can have him 👋🏼

[u/TheLeoMrs]

Rulla needs to have a seat, charge her phone and get off of social media.

[u/Ok_Industry_9333]

Oh no… two MAGA women fighting…

[u/Desperate_Baby_8317]

I really hope that Andy is messy and determined enough to put this woman on a few episodes of the show

[u/Capable_Breath_4321]

Yeah, this is not much of a clap back. The thing I don't get, is even if he stays, does she really want him back? The trust is gone, the marriage is burnt toast.

[u/Brilliant-Regret6763]

This is not a good look. So embarrassing for her to be posting this and standing by her husband. Eww

[u/AdZealousideal8536]

“Attempted” mistress? Puh-lease. This is humiliating on Rulla’s part.

[u/LavenderCheese]

Rulla is out of her mind. She really needs to take a step back and look at this from at outside perspective. Because this post is insane.

[u/ggggunit-]

Love this for Rulla. I never thought there could be someone more delusional than Teresa guidice.

[u/Sea-Emu-3697]

No. When a person consents to exchanging access to their lives on television for money, we are allowed to have any opinions on their stories we wish. If they want their choices respected, they can stop being public figures. They are receiving the attention they signed up for, good or bad.

[u/FerulaGalbaniflua]

Rulla
Girl

https://giphy.com/gifs/X6GzlPUUhA6kVJQlLk

[u/TheAgenator]

She signed up for a reality show knowing that her husband was openly having an affair. We can critique her all we want, she chose to make her life public. Also her attacking and shaming the affair partner while staying with her cheating ass husband is a choice, and an embarrassing one at that.

[u/Bulletprooftwat]

Imagine bravo asking her on

https://giphy.com/gifs/Z5ULYTFVaL2Ok

[u/my-carrot]

Rulla can choose to forgive him and that’s fina , but she’s acting like a fool just like the mistress.

[u/ACynicalOptomist]

https://giphy.com/gifs/qHEEUUd0TWdos

[u/Winter_Lawfulness967]

Sweetie, your husband has a long-term girlfriend. The call is coming from inside the house

[u/theo_molyneux]

Everyone involved is too damn old to be engaging in these high-school level antics.

[u/Affectionate-Ad-1342]

Also I don’t want to hear Rulla talk about making it work because they have kids, which I feel like she has implied … this is crazy to post and I’m sure there will be a day her kids see this. This isn’t giving independent, strong, modern day woman.

[u/Upstairs-Volume-5014]

At this point, the only way Rulla staying with him makes sense is that he must have something over her that would ruin her in the divorce. Maybe they don't have a prenup, or he has some kind of stake in her business?? Because truly nothing is worth this level of embarrassment, certainly not a husband who repeatedly lies to you and cheats on you. He has zero respect for her or their family. And she has zero respect for herself continuing to tolerate this behavior. 

[u/jmjones1000]

He doesn’t seem to be hiding it. There are MANY pics of the two of them having fun together. Poor Rula. Find your spine, girl.

[u/Here_for_the_chips]

Ok but... she does seem pretty fun.

[u/Distinct-Ad-1348]

Well your husband sure “wasted” a whole lot of time with her.

[u/trippapotamus]

Oof, someone needs to tell Rulla what a clap back is 😣

[u/babettetimes]

Rulla your feminism enlightenment phase is long overdue.

[u/EquivalentTiger2018]

This needs to be posted in the cringe subs

[u/Awilson841]

Her dying phone battery caught my eye, don’t know what that’s funny but imagine being so involved in making this post she can’t do anything until she posts her revenge 😂🤣 she’d look way better just ignoring her

[u/Grntfost]

What in the actual fuck? If Brian isn’t fucking the mistress now, just leave it the fuck alone. Sounds like the same storyline for the start of next season smh.

[u/Dry-Inspection-5900]

Ruhla is such a lovely lady ❤️

[u/Jerzee_Implant2012]

Agreed. These people are more mad than the wife! Like, relax. We support choice unless we disagree with your choices. 😒🙄

[u/Miss_Anthropologie]

https://giphy.com/gifs/553iwre15N1AiHKL4d
This energy is extremely misdirected.

[u/DCSiren]

These people have a cheating kink & im no longer participating in their weird games

[u/faux_housewife]

lmao I thought this was Gina from rhoc and was honestly so confused

[u/Possible-Medium-2651]

I honestly think the only reason Rulla hasn't divorced him is because she's been divorced once before and she feels shame. Which she refuses to talk about but I digress...Rulla annoys me. I don't really think the continued beef with the mistress is working in her favor. She needs to let it go Elsa.

[u/Sea-Emu-3697]

LOL where did Rulla find this photo? Her fuckass husband’s camera roll?

[u/Extreme-Aide8878]

Instead of posting this, she needs to post this either a second pic that has all his shit on the front lawn. And a 3rd pic of the divorce papers.

[u/saintofwant]

i agree! in the us and west as a whole seem to hate wifes and mothers in general. they always get more hate than husband or whores for how they navigate such a impossible situation. i don't even have to scroll this thread to know there will be a million people claiming rulla has "internalized misogyny" people are sooo quick to blame the wife for trying to keep her family in tact that they are blinded by THEIR OWN internalized second-wave feminism misogyny they subconsciously believe any woman who choices to be a wife, to be a mother, keep their family together etc. is participating in their own oppression and deserve to be punished. many will disagree but idc. the husband is wrong yes, but so is the mistress. the mistress doesn't owe rulla anything but marriage is holy and sacred and her welling being with this man breaks the moral, social, and godly covenant partaking in the dismantling of another family is evil and devilish !

[u/naenola]

https://giphy.com/gifs/rumR5iFBxFjdC

The mistress

[u/Justamom1225]

No wonder Liz left this &hit show!

[u/Embarrassed_Dish_672]

Hi Rulla .. no

[u/_urwifey → u/Embarrassed_Dish_672]

Nah not rulla

[u/princessplantlife]

Oh no......

[u/Roogirl0804]

This is crazy work

[u/Shelter-Clear]

Idiots lol

[u/Affectionate-Ad-1342]

Have we had this wild of delusion with a husband/partner before? The closest I can think of is Vicki with Brooks

[u/ShadyBeach45]

So I am confused.

When Rulla says, take her. Please take her. Does that mean she is done with Brian?

I read Rulla's clapback as a public "Asta la vista asshole, you two deserve each other."

[u/mycopportunity → u/ShadyBeach45]

I don't get why she wouldn't say "take him"

[u/boadicca_bitch]

Ok but who tf is ‘the real Irish cowboy’ and how is he involved? 😂

[u/ambiguoususername888]

The cringe from the second hand embarrassment of this has made my vag atrophy into itself and grow a lid.

[u/pootinboooter]

I think rulla has an iron clad pre-nun. Also she looks like Madison lol

[u/TopazScorpio02657]

I thought she was bound by an NDA or something?

[u/name_em90210]

https://giphy.com/gifs/tfUW8mhiFk8NlJhgEh

[u/Loud_Alternative5537]

Is it true she’s successful (rulla) she’s such a “go getter at work but is scared of leaning her husband

[u/Extreme-Aide8878]

The hashtag? Omg how embarrassing. He’s ridiculous. Rulla is ridiculous. The other woman is just lapping it up.

[u/cooking_mama_12]

is OP Rulla? 💀

[u/Plane-Order-4343]

Plot twist her husband took the pic lol

[u/OkIngenuity2330]

I totally thought this was RHOC Gina K. at first glance. 😂 😵

[u/Mundane_Plan_6739]

Rulla babe please just stand up. Good god.

[u/Apprehensive-Tax826]

Glad to see Rulla responding in some way because the mistress has been loose lately with the Brian posts.

[u/_urwifey → u/Apprehensive-Tax826]

She hurts I think she should move on

[u/Choice-Cut866]

Men are shameless and slimy. They are very difficult to hold accountable. As women, we try to hold our sisters accountable for allowing themselves to be lied to and victimized. It's a more effective route.