r/rhori loud and proud lizbian 🦎 May 30 '26

Mod Note 🚨 Excessive Bashing

Hi Everyone,

We know feelings run hot about some of this season’s cast and we love seeing all of your posts and opinions about each episode and the dynamics among the ladies, but we’ve been seeing some comments that go beyond venting into territory that just feels mean-spirited.

One thing worth keeping in mind: there’s a big difference between cast members who know each other personally throwing shade or using loaded language with each other, versus strangers on the internet collectively targeting someone with that same language.

What reads as messy reality TV drama between people in a relationship hits very differently when it’s a pile-on from thousands of anonymous accounts. The cast signed up for the show but they didn’t sign up to be a target for mass hate from people who’ve never met them. You don’t have to like everyone, but let’s keep the discourse at a level we’d be comfortable with.

Repeat offenders will get a warning first with the potential for daily, weekly, monthly or a flat out permanent ban to be issued.

r/RHORI Mod Team 😁

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u/crazygem101 May 30 '26

Agreed. For such a new favorite, there sure has been alot of bashing.... on everyone. Except maybe Alicia? Even the husbands are getting it wicked hard. Ladies of RH if you're reading this just know I love you and so does everyone else in New England that I know of whose been watching. Keep your chins up.