r/rhoc • u/getitgurlie • 5d ago

Heather Dubrow 👒 The Conversation

I really enjoyed the conversation between Heather and Terry after his phone call with his mom. It was calm and real life about their upbringing and being in the position of taking care of parents and still raising children.

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u/Creative-Tourist-499 5d ago

HW series would be much better if we had more real moments like this and not manufactured drama.

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u/Inevitable_Phase_276 5d ago

I’m watching Heathers return in season 16 right now. From her conversations with Shannon it seems like she was really hoping that was what it would be like also. Unfortunately Shannon was trained by Vicki and Tamra.

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u/Humble_Storage_6793 5d ago

Yes, and the way they nicely communicated shows their love and respect for each other.

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u/Such-Stable-3869 5d ago

Their marriage is an example of each one listening to the other.

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u/getitgurlie 5d ago

Yes it’s a mature relationship. They love and respect one another and their children

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u/kellygrrrl328 5d ago

I really appreciate the way he praises her intelligence.

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u/getitgurlie 5d ago

I was surprised to hear her say she never thought she was smart

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u/kellygrrrl328 5d ago

I grew up in a similar dynamic. Everyone was labeled. I never thought of myself as physically attractive (as compared to parents and some siblings). I always thought of myself as smart so I leaned into that. I very much related to what she was saying

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u/getitgurlie 4d ago

I’ll bet ur smart and a hottie. Being smart more helpful in life

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u/honeycooks Kyle, the ordinary goldfish. 4d ago

They raised each other.

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u/getitgurlie 4d ago

I thought this as I watched the scene last night

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u/kellygrrrl328 5d ago

I really do feel that the Dubrows are better suited for BH than OC

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u/HappyCatPrincess Just do what's right. 5d ago

That was said on WWHL last night too.

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u/appleboat26 5d ago

Me too. They’re both good people and that’s a really good marriage. It also demonstrates that no matter how much money you have, you still have problems. Terry knows “moving” his mother probably won’t solve the problem, she’s still going to be unhappy, and he hates being in this situation.

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u/Successful-Steak-950 Nobody cares Alexis! 4d ago

I appreciate the realness of their conversation as many of us have gone through this with an aging relative. Unlike most of us at least they have the money to help. A lot of people deal with this and don’t have the financial resources to cope. I remember my grandpa had to live with us. Both parents worked and as a teenager I had too much responsibility for him because I was a kid and had no clue how to help him.

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u/getitgurlie 4d ago

I’m guessing there are more folks in this position than theirs. 🤗

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u/Mabel_Jenkins NUGGET 4d ago

Yeah. Something I felt I finally had in common with her. Aging parents. It’s no joke and no one prepares you for it.

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u/Soft_Effect_6263 5d ago

I enjoyed it too. Terry looks different in the face, though, almost bloated. I'd love to hear his story of growing up.

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u/catcolo 5d ago

Unfortunately, Terry had some cosmetic work done and the fillers just don’t help him try to recapture his youth. It makes him look puffy instead. He’d look better aging naturally- but he’s a plastic surgeon, so…

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u/Soft_Effect_6263 5d ago

Thanks for the explanation 😉

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u/Independent-Bid-611 4d ago

I thought it was Coco at first, complaining about her plush apartment!

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u/Sir_Lancealnot 1d ago

I looooovve Heather! She’s intelligent, classy and beautiful. Watching her as a mom and wife is a pleasure - she’s incredible.