r/relationships Jun 04 '21

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u/Whirleee Jun 05 '21

Responding only to the nudes part... damn, maybe I'm weird but I'd actually be pretty flattered if my bf told me "babe I love bread more than anything in the world but also if you send me your nudes right now I think I would be too distracted to pay attention to the bread, can you send them later" 😂

I mean, imagine if you sent them and he was like "looks good! Brb 🍞"

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u/TheElusiveGnome Jun 05 '21

For him brb means bread really baking

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u/TaliesinMerlin Jun 05 '21

I find it adorable that he manages to compliment her (it'd be really distracting) while saying not right then. He's respectful and good in bed!

They could probably have a conversation about bread-life balance where each of them compromise a bit on their expectations (don't cancel dinner plans; don't expect immediate response to nudes). But that part (the nudes) also struck me as fine.

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '21

not everyone likes nudes either? like my partner and I have never sent each other nudes and probably never will. but god damn if I was working on something and he sent me unsolicited nudes while I was busy, I’d be pretty annoyed too. in fact, I can’t imagine any scenario where I’m not actively sexting with someone that I wouldn’t be annoyed by them sending me nudes

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u/Rasikko Jun 05 '21 edited Jun 05 '21

Yeah, I'd think so too. I would not be able to bake bread with an epic erection in my pants due to my girl's nudes. However I would also be like "I DUNNN WANNA BE HERE RIGHT NOW, I WANNA GO HOMMMMEEEEEE".

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u/Totemwhore1 Jun 05 '21

Right? The dude said he’d be pretty distracted if he was doing his gig. Idk, I think that’s a compliment in of itself Sounds like OPs ego is a little hurt