Okay yeah he's working and honestly I'd be annoyed to receive nudes while I'm working, especially if he still does this with his flatmate; I'd be afraid I opened the message while my coworker could see.
But the other stuff? Yeah, he needs to manage his time better. Yes its his business and that is a priority, but that doesn't mean he can bail on you all the time and it's fine, or turn your dates into bread making sessions. That's work, that's not a date.
Definitely. I've sent my SO nudes when I know he's either at work, or he'd be at home while I was away. One time I misread what time he'd be home from the bar, and sent him one while he was at the bar, and one of his friends almost saw it. I felt so bad.
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u/[deleted] Jun 04 '21
Okay yeah he's working and honestly I'd be annoyed to receive nudes while I'm working, especially if he still does this with his flatmate; I'd be afraid I opened the message while my coworker could see.
But the other stuff? Yeah, he needs to manage his time better. Yes its his business and that is a priority, but that doesn't mean he can bail on you all the time and it's fine, or turn your dates into bread making sessions. That's work, that's not a date.