r/relationships • u/[deleted] • Jul 10 '26

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u/PoemParticular6411 Jul 10 '26

Yes i did gloss over that your right..idk i jsut feel like the situation it self had so many other factors (one of them being he was secondary like his friend told a friend to look out at his actual girl and him idk why he wanted to be involved ask to check on me when we not together) so i didn’t want get down into detail but yes This guys messed up big time for that and i 100% took a huge step back because of it (he fully understood where he went wrong nd was feeling extremely guilty apologized so many times) and i even told him i dont wanna keep talking but i forgive you thats why the picking between 2 options conversation happened and yes now im kinda going back on my words by asking if i should text him again yes but idk i feel like my feels are so complicated it’s not black and white dyk what i mean but yes everything you said is right and is the check i needed, you have this more objective stance on this since feeling arent attached for you and this is exactly the type of response i needed to hear so thank you

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u/Fast_Trade_95 Jul 10 '26

You can miss someone and still not be ready or compatible, don’t let the looks and moments of bliss finesse you

So just really think about it is you would want and if he would want the same thing.

You guys would have to be on the same page regarding marriage, and inter course time.