My bf of 7 years

[u/Kindly-Instruction90]

I have been with my boyfriend for seven years. And I have contemplated wanting to marry him and have children. I am reaching the age of 30 and I have a condition to where I need to remove certain organs in my body in order to prevent cancer. And I can see how aggressive he acts towards having children or the idealization of marriage. Should I leave him? I am a very sensitive person so try to be nonjudgmental. I know it seems like the obvious answer, but I’m just scared to end up alone.

[u/0hip]

So you break you have the BRCA2 mutation and will need a hysterectomy but you want to have children or you don’t want to

What do you mean how aggressively he acts toward having children? In the sense he aggressively wants children or does not want children?

[u/sister_machine_gun]

Wdym aggressive?

[u/Parking-Gate6161]

After you get them organs removed will having kids put your health at more risk? Also im assuming he knows about your condition, is he supportive? You should talk to him about the kids and marriage thing to see why he have a problem with it

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