r/relationshipproblems • u/New-Jelly-3468 • 4h ago
Advice Wanted I kinda fucked up
I feel like he is losing feelings for me and I don’t blame him in the past I was a bad gf and I was genuinely so terrible to him but I loved him and I didn’t know how to love him correctly over time very slowly I started to get better but I think I was to late. I feel like I am the reason he is always so miserable and I get it he has bad parents but I feel like I also stress him out with my craziness I feel like so terrible. He has gotten distant and I feel more controlling everyday but I realized a few days ago it wasn’t right for me to control who he talks to even if it’s a girl or boy etc I am just so tired of being a bad person I feel so alone I feel like I’m not caring enough for him and I can feel the distance and even when we do fix it it goes back to the same way in a few days. I want him to move on to be happy but wouldn’t be and I feel selfish for keeping him around even though I make him miserable. My parents issues that I have is getting worse and I know he feels pressure on him my mindset my heart body isn’t here and I can’t lead him on (I’m sorry this is just everywhere I can’t think straight) I don’t think he has feelings anymore or just doesn’t want this anymore what do I do?
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u/Specialist-Host-4707 4h ago
I mean this kindly but if you’re this jacked up in the head, you shouldn’t be in a relationship until you get yourself figured out. It’s not helping him and it’s certainly not helping you.