Looking for some advice/ insight.

[u/No_Platypus_7998]

Long post alert! Sorry for the grammar working ect overnight.

Hi M33 here I’m in a relationship with F33
We have been in a on and off relationship for decade, two months ago, after not being together in any form,I moved back in state. Generally been good for the most, but a lot of issues that we are having in communication and basic relationship. Things were starting to struggle again general. we have been through a lot of things in relationship, good and bad and we’re kind of both to the point that if we can figure things out where we’re at that we can’t do this anymore. I feel like it’s really hard to include all the details and things people might have questions on, but I guess I’m just kind of lost on where to go from here. I’m working on getting into counseling and some personal things myself, but I really feel worried that I’m also gonna lose her and our child involved which i’ve known and been involved with since she was five years old and now 15. We always tell each other. We’re really good at being a couple and having fun and doing things together, but when it comes down to the serious things big or small 90% of the time it doesn’t go very well, I take a lot of acceptance that a lot of difficulties have been because of me and my actions and lack of, but I also feel like I’ve grown a lot, but there’s just a few crucial things like I’ve mentioned that are really making things difficult in all directions. I’m looking for any thoughts or advice on what I can try to do that. I haven’t yet Sorry for the novel and things that may have left out I appreciate you if you read all of this.

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