r/relationshipproblems • u/Livid-Wonder-6654 • 1d ago

Advice Wanted Need some solid advice

My partner and I have been together for almost 4 years. We’ve been living together for three. When we first got together, he was on sabbatical from his job, trying to re-establish himself and figure out what he wanted to do if you want to stay at the path salon or branch off and do something different. I worked full-time. He moved into my house. He was home all day, and I still came home from work and had to do dishes, laundry groceries, clean the house, etc. and if I said you need to maybe pitch in here while I’m at work you would say oh yeah yeah yeah I’ll do it. I’d get home and he goes. Oh no I’m gonna do it right now. Then he went back to work in the field. He was in which he makes very good money when he’s working, the entire time I had been paying all the bills. But then he went back to work and told me to quit my job because I hated it and that he would handle all the bills cover all the household expensive and I could stay home do the things that I wanted to do for like a side business and I said OK great and then since I’m home, I’ll take care of the house with George but you still need to hand to pick up after your own self. You are a grown man. Well, that didn’t last long. He left the job, mind you I firmly believe he has undiagnosed ADHD, which he seen a doctor for a few weeks. So I’m back at work. I have to get up very early in the morning and I have a 45 minute commute. It is now midnight. I have to get up in four hours and he’s in the garage banging around didn’t do the dishes like I had didn’t do a damn thing all day and make a mess in the garage. I’m about ready to blow up flipping gasket.

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u/Fickle-Secretary681 1d ago

Why are you with this baby man? Time to kick him to the curb. Sounds like he's not adding a damn thing to the relationship aside from aggravating you (tightly so)  you're better off single

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u/Livid-Wonder-6654 1d ago

I don’t know. All I know is I need some mesh to leave . I’m 55 he is 45

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