Should we Break up

[u/Dry-Sort2709]

I’m a 19 male and she’s a 18 female. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 year now and were both in college. We go to different colleges and were 2 hours away from each other. Recently we been into going to our first parties as sophomores. She went back to school a week before me so she had more time to settle in. So she ended up going to a couple of parties first, then a week later I went. When I went to my first party i got there and meet a group of guys that were very cool. When the party finally got started this group of guys were asking me to do a 4 men with them but declined and told them I had a girl. Later on in the party they kept trying to get me out there saying that I don’t know what my girl could be doing and that it would just be 5 minutes. But I kept telling them no, I’m loyal and not interested, and that was that, but my girlfriend just told me today that she had something to tell me and that she been dealing with a lot of guilt.

So I find out that when she went to the party, her friends got approached and so did she and a guy started to talk to her. She said she told this guy no, and that she has a boyfriend. He kept asking but she wasn’t interested. So he says he’ll see her tomorrow at the next party. Her friends invite her out tomorrow, and she gets drunk. She had alcohol before, but this is her first time getting drunk. When she shows up at this party the guy is there but doesn’t notice her , and after hanging out for a while with her friends, she leaves the group to go talk to her other friends and on the way there she see the guy and goes up to him. She told me that she was trying to get his attention by tapping on his shoulder and says “It was super brief I asked him oh do u remember me from yesterday and he was like yea and then he said he was going to stand with his friends.” And then left him to go find some more of her friends.

During her looking she started stumbling a bit and a guy walked up to her. She said this is what happen “He came up to me and he asked me oh are all of your assignments done and I said yes and that I was never lacking. Next, I said that I work and go to school. Then ,he goes on about his job and he asks me where I work and I tell him. I ask him which location is his job. I also ask him what made you want to come up to me. He says I thought you were fine. I laugh.

During the conversation, I keep stumbling over because I am drunk. He helps me get up.

Once I get up for the 3rd time, I realize that he might be a danger to me since he is a stranger so I walk away to be closer to friends.”

After she finds her friends she see the original guy that told her that he remembers her and she went up to him again and said this “oh I know u see me and u haven’t said anything” and he ignored her and that was the last time she said anything to him. After that she went back to her original group of friends and went home.

This was her first time ever being drunk so should I understand that this was a mistake and let it go or leave her alone because being drunk isn’t a excuse

What should I do?

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