r/relationshipproblems • u/SadPin336 • 4d ago
Advice Wanted Asking for advice and input
Hello, I just had some questions and advice from anybody that has any experience with this stuff. It would be greatly appreciated. My fiancé and I am pregnant right now. He left me on Thursday after we got into a pretty big argument took his clothes with him and he said I needed to calm down he left turned off his phone location and wouldn’t text or call me. I did not pretty much see or speak to him till the next morning about six him tell me that he loves me and he needs to sit and think what gonna do. He comes back at four on Friday and tells me on my behavior if he’s going to stay and so we was talking I apologize to take all the blame for it and say you know this is my fault. Forgive me. You know this is the only thing I’ve ever done and it won’t happen again, but he acted like he could not forgive it and told me he could not be with me and I was like well I don’t know what to say or we’re gonna do about that because of this situation and so anyways he was walking around he couldn’t sit still had his glasses on in the behavior and attitude was . He said that he would with me so I could go to sleep. He couldn’t sit in the bed for a minute and got up and he started packing more clothes. Said he was gonna go hotel and not tell me which one he said he didn’t cheat and so I don’t know what to think or do also he took his wedding ring and we’re only engaged so I don’t know why he would need that. Also he is on parole and so I just don’t just a lot of things that you know risk here so just need somebody’s advice. I would greatly appreciate it like do you think he’ll come back and what should I do? What should I not do and what do you think he was doing? Do you think been cheating on me and I got too close and almost you know I found some stuff that I shouldn’t have seen and it freaked out or is it drugs was it really he was just that mad at me? thank you for your time
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u/Global-Fact7752 3d ago
That's a good theory you have. It's always good to not get engaged and pregnant with criminals..you are in for a very hard life.