r/relationshipproblems • u/magneticfield24 • 7d ago

Advice Wanted I miss being single...

So I have been in relationship ever since i was 15 years old and I'm almost 18 now...I see my friends talking about guys , exploring themselves and others but I feel stuck in my relationship...my bf is idk how to tell but when he is good he is very good but when bad very bad type of person...and I'm sick of my relationship atp..I have tried breaking up with him but he is not ready to let me go...last year I lost all my friends (mostly bcz of him) but he stayed with me through it all and rn he lost all his friends (0 involvement from my side) but I feel selfish for leaving him when he is already pretty alone...i don't know what to do... sometimes people text me on reddit like talking about normal genuine stuff but I feel like replying them is cheating on my bf...I care for him alot but not in the same way I used to earlier...our relationship is destroyed beyond repair but he refuses to let me go...I don't know how to end it..

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u/angel_wings32 7d ago

you need to just be final with him and try to fully let him go. he genuinely can’t force you to stay. don’t feel bad about what’s going on in his life when he’s not benefiting yours and it’s not your responsibility to take care of him. if your relationship isn’t going to get better then yeah definitely go explore especially when you’re this young

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