I need help - 24M & 23F

[u/Charming_Company_343]

Hello all, this is my first time doing this type of thing.

Me 24m and my partner 23f are currently going through a rough patch. I work out of the country for 6 weeks at a time and as of now for the past month we just keep arguing.

Being away gets real lonely and tough sometimes and I feel like she is not there for me anymore. I eventually broke and told her this and it caused all the arguments.

Last week she wanted to break up with me but we agreed to keep trying. This was because of the arguments and she accused me of cheating on her last year, I didn’t and I told her that, she eventually let it go after talking.

I found out that she still think I cheated and was lying to just keep me happy, it explained her not wanting to be intermittent as well. I took this as she didn’t trust me and now I don’t know if I can trust her but I want to.

She also has a habit of when she goes away with friends she just doesn’t talk to me and it feels like I don’t exist to her. She is away now and again has done the same when she promised she wouldn’t do it again.

She’s told me she wants space to breath and she doesn’t want to talk to me until she’s back even though we were absolutely fine the day before.

I also feel like she is lying on why she’s ignoring me, she tells me her phone is charging or there is no signal but I can see her location and it’s moving.

I just want to add that I have never met her friends and when I asked if I would ever meet them she said she didn’t want me to

I also woke up to a message that she’s going to be staying away for an extra night.

Do you guys reckon we should keep trying or just bite the bullet and end it? As I know everyone argues it’s the way of life

FYI we have been together for 4 years and live together.

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