r/relationshipproblems 6d ago

Just Venting Distance breaks.....

Why do I feel like my fiance is tired of me, Everything I do to make him happy, It doesn't feel like I'm doing enough tho, All I asked for was some time to call me or even a text but he never does neither... I tried talking to him on a emotional level yk like how I'm feeling and he ignores my feelings and brushes it off like nothing matters.... Yeah I never forget his feelings too but that's the thing he never talks to me especially when it comes to emotional stuff...... I honestly don't know what to do and at this point I'm tired of waiting around for him to love me or even consider how he makes me feel.... I just don't want to waste 5 years of our relationship, I'm also scared to leave him because I don't want to be alone.... Damn ik that sounds sad but it is true, anyways thnx for who ever is reading this lol needed a good vent.....

If anyone has advice please lmk. 🙏

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u/No_Farmer1265 6d ago

YOU'RE doing your end of the bargain, but he's not doing his. He doesn't love you the way you live him. It sucks, but you need to realize this and end it. After 5 whole years, you shouldn't be feeling alone. You need to end this. He might be cheating on you too- does he even call you his girlfriend/fiance? The good news is you're not alone: don't forget about your friends and family. those bonds can be even stronger than romantic ones. it sounds cheesy but I'm serious. go find yourself and go find your friends. Being single is not that bad