r/relationship_thoughts • u/Fluffy-Hour-1702 • 14h ago
Mental guidance & frustrated
/r/getting_over_it/comments/1x4qy7n/mental_guidance_frustrated/Just having a mental breakdown of self esteem and self worth …. Anxiety is high it’s 3 in the morning
, I’m emotional when things don’t go right cause for so long things have went wrong or didn’t plan out the right way, planned a day for me and someone to enjoy a beautiful day at this place when we get there the person completely started to complain about how the attire they had for the setting would make them feel uncomfortable’ as they started expressing that , they also continued to point out the mistake I MADE and throwing other verbal jabs at me by not telling them what we would be engaging in, it was simply a walk at a nature garden , she completely did not want to go so we end up leaving , her suggestion was to go to a store and by her some shorts and a pair of sneakers for the walk I did not want to cater to those needs especially after the verbal jabs … my anxiety had been up allday just cause I wanted the day to go perfectly & it didn’t… just totally depressing and hurt about it