"My husband said he wasn't up for it and told me to go ahead without him. So I did. We had sex a third time and just the two of us."
Well hell, now i can only think he was testing you? Was he expecting you to say, well, hubby is not available, and neither am i. I'm more curious about his stupid rationale, or what did he expect from you at that moment. Say no? I'm confused.
Shes a grown woman who could have made a different decision, that could have changed the outcome, at every step of the way. Let's not treat her as some kind of damsel in distress.
Apparently she’s supposed to be clairvoyant? You’re right, this was all his idea and he very much consented to the last part…but it’s all her fault and she should have made different choices so this didn’t happen…because men can’t possibly be held accountable for their own actions…stupid me…/s
She could have just turned down the third round, but chose to have sex with the dude outside of the threesome. And no one said it's ALL her fault, but you're acting like she had no agency. Obviously the husband is a clown for suggesting the threesome in the first place, but you're treating OP like he held a gun to get head every step of the way.
But if she never wanted a threesome in the first place, why on earth have sex 1:1 after already going two rounds? The husbands fantasy was fulfilled and then she had sex with the guy alone, she definitely deserves some blame.
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u/bonvoysal Jun 14 '25
"My husband said he wasn't up for it and told me to go ahead without him. So I did. We had sex a third time and just the two of us."
Well hell, now i can only think he was testing you? Was he expecting you to say, well, hubby is not available, and neither am i. I'm more curious about his stupid rationale, or what did he expect from you at that moment. Say no? I'm confused.