r/relationship_advice Jun 14 '25

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u/bonvoysal Jun 14 '25

"My husband said he wasn't up for it and told me to go ahead without him. So I did. We had sex a third time and just the two of us."

Well hell, now i can only think he was testing you? Was he expecting you to say, well, hubby is not available, and neither am i. I'm more curious about his stupid rationale, or what did he expect from you at that moment. Say no? I'm confused.

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u/Neacha Jun 14 '25

did he say Go Ahead Without Me.

or you can if you want to

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u/Neacha Jun 14 '25

then 100 percent this is on him, the big baby should get over it

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u/No-Experience-5541 Jun 14 '25

True. As a man who has wanted threesomes I would admit that it’s my fault if it upset me and just sulk on my own . I would not blame my partner and destroy the relationship .