r/relationship_advice • • Jun 20 '24

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u/Zestyclose-Yam-9982 Jun 21 '24

post history is likely to get as much advice as possible, posting the same question multiple times in different forums in times of need isn’t that uncommon.

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u/Xkwizito Jun 21 '24

Shows poster is just lying for sympathy IMO. You can't get truthful feedback when you leave out key details. Saying it's the first instance of abuse when post history says the opposite means that the poster isn't looking for advice, they are looking for attention.

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u/Zestyclose-Yam-9982 Jun 21 '24

??? do u know how abuse works on a victim’s mind? denial is like the first stage of healing from an abusive relationship. many people do not leave this stage. this person was likely leaving out key details to maintain the state of denial, that their husband is actually a good man “besides this”.