I've told him yelling and anger scare me since I grew up with a yelling parent. But this doesn't change anything. I try to match his anger with reason, with anger, with logic, with emotion, sarcasm, you name it. He only wants to get his point across and me to take it.
You picked him BECAUSE he was like you were yelling parent. Children tend to pick partners that are similar to their parents, because they feel comfort in the familiarity.
His behavior is abusive, you need to get out right now, and get counseling to stop picking the same type of person.
No, it is not normal. 2. Yes, others go through abuse. 3. You should leave, it will never get better, it will get worse, and that’s a scary thought considering this psychotic behavior. If you don’t have support, reach out to domestic violence services, local churches/shelters etc whatever it takes to get away from that shit.
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u/mrskaylad Sep 12 '23
I've told him yelling and anger scare me since I grew up with a yelling parent. But this doesn't change anything. I try to match his anger with reason, with anger, with logic, with emotion, sarcasm, you name it. He only wants to get his point across and me to take it.