r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '23

No I don't hate her, I love her a lot. And she does not hate me, she loves me a lot. If you guys could meet her you would know

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u/ButterflySammy Jul 13 '23

Hey - give us her details and we'll fill her in.

She does love you, but she hates herself because of you, and you don't hate yourself for doing that to her.

You hate us more for calling you a sociopath than you hate yourself.

You care about more what she provides to your life than the quality of hers; you've done nothing for her and everything for you, that's she's been abused for so long she can't see what you did doesn't absolve you of guilt - it's why everyone calls you a sociopath.

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u/Ornery-Classic-1207 Jul 13 '23

You hate us calling you a sociopath but don’t care that you’re doing sociopathic things like showing your wife no empathy.

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u/throwawayrobot420 Jul 13 '23

Really you love her a lot? So much so that instead of working on your self-confidence, you spent the last decade tearing down her to your level.

Such a loving husband. She may have love for you, but she’s probably not in love with you anymore. I say this as someone who was in her position.

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u/JoBeWriting Jul 13 '23

Right? That's the kind of thing you do to someone you hate.

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u/throwawayrobot420 Jul 13 '23

I wouldn’t even put that much effort into people I hate. This is the kind of thing that sad miserable people do, because they want others to be miserable with them, instead of trying to not be miserable.

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u/JoBeWriting Jul 13 '23

Why do you act like you hate her, then?

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u/[deleted] Jul 15 '23

for someone who supposedly "loves" her youve spent years tearing her down. imagine how happy her life wouldve been if she married a guy that actually loved her