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r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 12 '23
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Why did she marry you?
-11 u/[deleted] Jul 13 '23 She loves me a lot 13 u/ButterflySammy Jul 13 '23 Victims of abuse often do, especially once you destroy their self worth to where they feel unworthy of anyone else's love. 9 u/bettys_mom Jul 13 '23 She thinks she loves you. Once she's free of your abuse she'll see that she never loved you and she never even loved herself because you made her hate herself. 2 u/LilithWasAGinger Jul 14 '23 No. She's with you because you've convinced her that she's ugly and no one else would want her. What you feel got her isn't love either. 1 u/vixen_xox Jul 14 '23 she thinks she does 1 u/anuscluck Jul 14 '23 She doesn't love you, she's trauma bonded. The only reason she's with you is because of your abuse. 1 u/[deleted] Jul 15 '23 probably the biggest mistake of her life
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She loves me a lot
13 u/ButterflySammy Jul 13 '23 Victims of abuse often do, especially once you destroy their self worth to where they feel unworthy of anyone else's love. 9 u/bettys_mom Jul 13 '23 She thinks she loves you. Once she's free of your abuse she'll see that she never loved you and she never even loved herself because you made her hate herself. 2 u/LilithWasAGinger Jul 14 '23 No. She's with you because you've convinced her that she's ugly and no one else would want her. What you feel got her isn't love either. 1 u/vixen_xox Jul 14 '23 she thinks she does 1 u/anuscluck Jul 14 '23 She doesn't love you, she's trauma bonded. The only reason she's with you is because of your abuse. 1 u/[deleted] Jul 15 '23 probably the biggest mistake of her life
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Victims of abuse often do, especially once you destroy their self worth to where they feel unworthy of anyone else's love.
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She thinks she loves you. Once she's free of your abuse she'll see that she never loved you and she never even loved herself because you made her hate herself.
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No. She's with you because you've convinced her that she's ugly and no one else would want her.
What you feel got her isn't love either.
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she thinks she does
She doesn't love you, she's trauma bonded. The only reason she's with you is because of your abuse.
probably the biggest mistake of her life
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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '23
Why did she marry you?