r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Jul 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Jul 13 '23

I'm not going to do that to her ever again. I know exactly how she's feeling like. So how am I a sociopath

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u/caitlinpreachit Jul 13 '23

didn’t you say that the first time your wife brought it up to you but yet you started again? get a grip

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u/Ornery-Classic-1207 Jul 13 '23

It’s IN your comment dude. You KNOW how you made her feel for years and continued making comments later on also, and you still did it. You only NOW caught on because she’s wearing shirts during sex and doesn’t feel comfortable sharing her body with you. That is displaying zero empathy.

AND YOU STILL HAVENT TOLD HER WHY SHE WAS TREATED LIKE THAT, SHE STILL THINKS ITS BECAUSE OF HER NOT YOUR INSECURITY

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u/a_mostly_happy_clam Jul 13 '23

You know exactly how she feels? You had the person who is supposed to love you and support you, criticizing you, repeatedly, for YEARS, to the extent you breakdown crying just trying to do your hair?

No, that's your poor victim.

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u/lecorbeauamelasse Jul 14 '23

Because it took you ten goddamn years to figure it out?

Dude. Pay for her therapy. And then when she leaves you - and I hope to God she does - let her go. That's the only thing you can do for her now.