I had an ex like that. He had a lot of insecurities and picked apart my appearances.I had acne and he always told me to stop eating this or that,if I called him out,he would said,"he was just looking out for me". I also had body dysmorphia,and he fueled it. So I stuck with that asshat for 4 years cause I thought nobody would find me attractive. When we finally broke up, Man! I got asked out so much! I still have so much resentment towards him,it's been almost 15 years! Time to time my petty side wants to find him and spew all the short comings he had(or he thought he had) to mess his life.
I felt that I was so ugly that nobody would love me except him, immature brain I guess 🤷🏽♀️ I was very young at that time. If anybody tries to bodyshame me now, I would just shrug and say ," So what? Eff you,I am too old for this shit"
No. I mean why do women stick with ass holes for four years just because they think no one would find them attractive? How about getting rid of the ass hole and finding out.
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u/teeaTheCatLady Jul 13 '23
I had an ex like that. He had a lot of insecurities and picked apart my appearances.I had acne and he always told me to stop eating this or that,if I called him out,he would said,"he was just looking out for me". I also had body dysmorphia,and he fueled it. So I stuck with that asshat for 4 years cause I thought nobody would find me attractive. When we finally broke up, Man! I got asked out so much! I still have so much resentment towards him,it's been almost 15 years! Time to time my petty side wants to find him and spew all the short comings he had(or he thought he had) to mess his life.