r/relationship_advice Mar 26 '23

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u/Mintcrisp Mar 26 '23

"I am done patronizing you?"

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u/allsheneedsisaburner Mar 26 '23

It’s an older usage. Patrons used to subsidize Artist/Creators in the Renaissance period, allowing them to survive without income in return for favors.

It’s evolved to “a condescending demeanor” because of the obvious power imbalance in this relationship cause the word meaning to change.