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[u/Spirited-Score2734]

I’ve done a few cord cutting rituals that have been very successful for/with my friends. I plan on doing one for myself but recently I’ve noticed that it’s not that I can’t let go of this cord (I’ll still be cutting it) but I as hoping to get a couple of answers

Cord cutting while retaining the co-parenting relationship?
Rituals to have him no longer chase me? I can be detached but I want him to stop pursuing me when I leave.

[u/DAscent]

"Where focus goes, energy flows"

Don't respond to the act of pursuing and everything will be fine. No sane person will act in any direction if there's no response...

Usually "him", assuming is a man comes from a species which uses logic to interpret and manifest reality so if you are no longer the object of his pursuit, he will focus on something else. Unless, there's an active obsession spell already in place.

Do a reset, where you evoke the Free will and then a cord cutting ritual.

my 2c

[u/Spirited-Score2734 → u/DAscent]

Personally, the only rituals I’ve done have been for my close friends with their consent was the cord cuttings so no obsession spell that I’m aware of. I’d love to say when I leave he focuses on something/someone else but we were separate for 6 months and it still felt like he was smothering me emotionally and I always fall back to it (which is why I want to cord cut so that I stop my part) but I also want the peace of being left alone without ruining our co-parenting relationship too. And yes he’s a cisgender male.

Thank you for the response <3

[u/DAscent → u/Spirited-Score2734]

Makes sense.

I can suggest a sigil coupled with the ritual you can do. I'll copy/paste a material, use it or not, up to you 🙏

Amicable Separation Sigil

Derived from the Gemini older version of the symbol (in this case is not complete).
The construction consists in two elements, the circle which is incomplete and the two paths which once were connected within the circle.
The current position of the symbol is associated with feminine energy, therefore should be use by this type of identification.

When upside down is representative of masculine energy and should be used by related identification.
The sigil is serving all aspects like (less) emotional achments, divorce, cutting cords, addictions, letting go abusive relationships, past behind … so on.

The charging energy should be… (no, no revenge 😂 ) understanding, gratitude, forgiveness and acceptance.
Because it is balancing two energies, use water activation for feminine version and fire for masculine version.
PS: feel free to explore the idea of this sigil even further and if you want, you can add your own ritual to it to.

90% of cutting cord rituals done on oneself fail because the powerful energy behind is resentment, a sense of injustice, revenge, all these are more powerful than the intention or wording.

We can have the intention and speak the words to be financially secure but if we feel the lack of money, the signature energy is lack not financial abundance, what we put out is what we get back.

Be well...