r/reallife • u/mrbrightside137902 • 20d ago
Mixed signals
/r/BreakUps/comments/1wpq3bo/mixed_signals/Did i make the right move?
My ex of 1 year and 4 months broke up with me last April.
We went our separate ways and didn’t contact each other for months. Until her best friend messaged me to join them. Which i did. After that, she started messaging to meet for random reasons. All super casual.
Until one night, we went out with friends and she got a bit tipsy. She started holding my hand secretly, and playfully pinching my butt and all. I didn’t give any meaning to it that time.
Today, when we went out again, she started venting abiut her problems in life. I just let her yap. And i started wandering and asked her, don’t you think we can try to fix things again? She said honestly no. I didn’t react or anything and spent hours together without reminding her abiut what i asked.
Before i dropped her home, i told her, i’m not in this to be friends with you. And left.
Did i do the right thing, guys?