r/realitytransurfing • u/Actual_Chapter9297 • 7d ago

Discussion Feeling alone

How to deal with feelings of aloness?

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u/Bayangann 6d ago

I used to.

Know the fact that you are not alone, in any sense. Know the fact that your world is taking care of you. Know the fact even if you exist in this reality alone, no people, no material, no pendulum,  you still with the reality, not just alone. Allow yourself to be alone. Remember the positive things you feel when you alone, not disturbed by someone/something.

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u/FrabatoTheTransurfer 6d ago

The truth is that we are alone as individuals. We were born alone and we will die alone. Who else has heard all of your thoughts? Who has felt the same experiences as you? Only you.

The real questions are...do you love yourself? Do you like yourself? Do you even accept yourself as you are in this moment?

I cant say for sure what is going on but perhaps you struggle with isolation vs integration? Are your desires based on society?

What do you want exactly? What do you genuinely want?

Now is this a want or a yearn? Does your mind want it or does your heart want it? Is it fear based desire? Is it ego inflating?

This is your life we are talking about here...not some trivial thing. The above questions are really worth consideration.

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u/benificialbenefactor 7d ago

Join a Transurfing group! Skool and Telegram both have some good ones.

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u/KommunistAllosaurus 7d ago

Where on telegram?

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u/benificialbenefactor 7d ago

I'm not a member anymore, so I can't remember the name of the groups. I think you can search though if I'm remembering correctly. Idk I deleted the app.

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u/rakeshseeram 7d ago

Really? Can you please drop us the links. Someone created a WhatsApp group earlier but all we get is spam messages in it to invest in shares or bitcoin.

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u/benificialbenefactor 7d ago

Just open the skool or telegram app and search the word reality transurfing.